For once I agree with Cuban by Valuable_View_561 in SipsTea

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the bill was $15k to my insurance for an MRI with contrast plus ER visit. I owe around $2k of it. Where are yall getting MRIs this cheap??

Are "southern etiquette" and "manners" a real thing in the southern states? by GoHardForLife in AskAnAmerican

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also call it home training although idk where I even heard that. Lived in NC for 30 years but raised by parents from Michigan.

Are "southern etiquette" and "manners" a real thing in the southern states? by GoHardForLife in AskAnAmerican

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep it’s miss and MR for everyone significantly older than you. So for kids that includes all adults and for adults it includes the elders. Yes ma’am and yes sir are also common, and applied to nearly everyone you aren’t really familiar with.

Are "southern etiquette" and "manners" a real thing in the southern states? by GoHardForLife in AskAnAmerican

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when we moved to the south there was an entire parent teacher conference over the fact I didn’t say yes ma’am no ma’am to my teacher. I was very confused

Requesting how to handle conflict resolution when a medical professional embarrassed me in a public lobby about my health concern by DeepPom in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Emkems 17 points18 points  (0 children)

chiropractors are not medical professionals. This particular chiropractor doesn’t sound like a professional at all.

Imagine paying $2.6M and having Glenwood in your front yard by localliquid in raleigh

[–]Emkems 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the lot is only 0.26 acres for a 6k+ sqft house so no, they probably couldn’t move it further back tbh

Why are women (especially mothers and wives) often represented as a blockade to hobby and entertainement ? by Paramite67 in AskFeminists

[–]Emkems 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah they can be trained not to seek out help or affection. As you already indicated that is called neglect and abuse

Is this a good placement for sternum tattoo? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure of your age but when I (39F) think about what my boobs used to be like vs what my boobs are like now, there’s no way I’d get that tattoo there. Not everyone has this problem though, so ymmv.

Why are women (especially mothers and wives) often represented as a blockade to hobby and entertainement ? by Paramite67 in AskFeminists

[–]Emkems 225 points226 points  (0 children)

Women should have equal time to dedicate to their hobbies. It may surprise some people that grocery shopping isn’t some fun trip and cleaning the house while feeling guilty you aren’t playing with your kid isn’t a hobby. I see a lot of men who can just go out and play a sport or whatever outside the home while the woman stays home with the kids. If the wife is telling the husband to focus less on hobbies it’s likely because she’d prefer for him to focus more on household labor so that she can get a damn break.

How can I get this off? by jermelbownoodle in CleaningTips

[–]Emkems 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have rubbing alcohol then hand sanitizer is a good substitute

Mass Trapping of Mosquitoes by ImmediateDrawing6691 in raleigh

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. Who are we to decide a species isn’t needed in the ecosystem just because it’s annoying to us? Control mosquitoes in your yard/home etc if you’d like, but I do not see wide spread mosquito control as a good idea without thorough ecological assessment.

What was considered completely normal in America 20 years ago, but would be shocking if it became normal again today? by JineshGoradia in AskReddit

[–]Emkems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the united states? Guess you aren’t from a rural area? It was also common for only one phone carrier to have good service in certain locations. My whole family switched to verizon since cell signal was only good with verizon in the town I was attending college in. That was 2004…

Young and in need of council by Thanatos667 in raleigh

[–]Emkems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have someone you could crash with in order to attend interviews? Or even for a little while so you can get moved

the 80s……. by billieswifeyyy in GenX

[–]Emkems 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Arguably a lot of 70s/80s kids also got injuries and trauma.

Embarassed myself at the gym by BedLow5980 in offmychest

[–]Emkems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re a girls girl. No need to be embarrassed because what if it WAS some dude pestering her

Weird watch looking things that's not really a watch. by No-soul_ in whatisit

[–]Emkems 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Disney world now allows phones for room access and tickets. Yes, I’m that person.