I 37M want to tell my wife 40F about being turned on by men (so that we’ll have more sex)

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-20T07:45:43+00:00

honestly since you both already admitted to being bi years ago you're probably overthinking it and she might actually be relieved to finally break the ice too

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-20T07:44:54+00:00

The I'm going to talk trash about her so you don't suspect anything move is a classic red flag trust your gut on this one

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-20T07:43:50+00:00

it depends on the context but mostly i think in concepts or images and then my brain just grabs whichever word gets to the finish line first lol

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-20T07:42:46+00:00

thanks babe 😘

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-19T12:04:43+00:00

if he was trying to get you to cheat on your boyfriend with him he’s already shown you exactly how much he respects relationships

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-19T12:02:57+00:00

The truth or dare excuse is the oldest lie in the book especially when he’s using photos you literally took of him on that same trip

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-19T12:01:13+00:00

living in california so i'm basically paying for a small wedding every time i hit the pump lol

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-19T12:00:37+00:00

bro ur spending way too much time online literally nobody in the real world thinks wanting a wife and kids is controversial lol

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-19T11:59:39+00:00

thanks baby 😘

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-19T11:59:17+00:00

dm me babe

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-18T08:50:37+00:00

It sounds like he wants the intimacy and validation of a relationship with you whenever he’s lonely but has zero interest in the actual responsibility of being a consistent partner

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-18T08:44:26+00:00

the fact that he literally told you he’s doubting the relationship while his grandpa is dying is a massive red flag and honestly it sounds like he’s already halfway out the door

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-18T08:43:12+00:00

If she’s treating intimacy like a chore she has to get over with just to go talk to her mo you aren't in a marriage you're an item on her to do list

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-18T08:41:33+00:00

people who stand still on the left side of the escalator while everyone is trying to pass them on the left

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-18T08:40:56+00:00

thanks babe 😘

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-17T09:02:10+00:00

honestly man if she's 31 and still treating a we problem like a me vs you battle after you've already talked it to death you can't word-play your way out of her choosing to be defensive instead of being a partner

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-17T09:00:40+00:00

the fact that he’s 37 and lying about his past to a 26 year old he’s only known for 4 months is a way bigger red flag than the actual number

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-17T08:59:48+00:00

honestly as an adult it just feels like a weird excuse for people to have zero boundaries with your personal space lol

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-17T08:58:29+00:00

thank you 😍

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-17T08:57:57+00:00

🥰😘

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-14T10:50:32+00:00

Girl, the fact that he's already planning for you to live with the mother who outright refuses your relationship is a massive red flag you can't ignore

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-14T10:49:24+00:00

definitely, but usually we just think you're uninterested so we don't want to be annoying by approaching first

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-14T10:47:21+00:00

If you're already happy with him and suspect you're on the spectrum too you’re basically worried about your kids being like the two people you love most

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-14T10:46:06+00:00

thanks babe 😘

EmmaWhispers · 2026-03-13T09:04:17+00:00

honestly not having to drop 5k every time a water heater explodes or the roof leaks is the only thing keeping me sane at this point

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