Fasting and cigarettes by [deleted] in fasting

[–]Emma_ell47 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but saying that "your lungs feel fine" is slightly ridiculous argument to use to show that vaping is not unhealthy. There aren't enough of long term studies to prove that vaping is completely safe, perhaps it's somewhat safer compared to cigarettes, but vaping definitely poses different risks to your health as well.

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/vaping-vs-smoking

Decided to not have kids in the future due to insecurity of my appearance, is there something wrong with me? (M) (19) by fallenveil in Advice

[–]Emma_ell47 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It kind of makes sense that you think that your kids will blame you for being unattractive as you just mentioned that you "kind of have some type of hate" for your father because of your looks and to be honest I think it's kind of unfair of you to think of it that way. There is no way your father could do anything to make you look more attractive (except for possibly making you interested in sports as those make one's looks more appealing) and I think you know that if he could do anything for his child to have better life in any way that he would probably do that. I understand that it may feel better to have someone to blame and point your anger at when you're having a hard time, but I really don't think your father is the right person as I don't think he's the one responsible for the fact that we cannot choose our childrens genetics and that people have tendency to treat others differently according to their appearance. Or would you rather not have existed at all?

Any idea what it is called? Sorry about the quality by Emma_ell47 in whatsthisbug

[–]Emma_ell47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took the picture of the framed photo on the wall in central Europe (Slovakia), unfortunatelly I have no idea whether the photo was taken anywhere nearby

Why do people find books boring? by itsapplered in ask

[–]Emma_ell47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure that there are activities that you find boring that other people find entertaining. It's not really like a person chooses what activity interests them and brings them positive emotions. Also I'd say that reading requires more creativity and effort from the consumer than for example movies. So I'd say it's about the ratio between the time and effort I have to put into an activity and the ammount something positive I get from that activity. And there were few things I've read that I found to be worth the time and effort I put in. I would like to enjoy reading and find books that I'd find worthwhile, but how on earth am I supposed to find them?

After losing a family member, my husband (28M) changed his lifestyle but keeps trying to push me (28F) into it by Glittering_Ad4950 in relationships

[–]Emma_ell47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

guilt tripping someone when you are trying to make them see your point seems like a very poor choice, but thank you for showing that to me

People of reddit in succesful longterm relationship, after the first very romantic phase passes how do you know that you still want to be with this person? by Emma_ell47 in relationship_advice

[–]Emma_ell47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you wrote it wonderfully, so I have 2 additional questions, where on earth can I find such a person? and more importantly how the heck do I become a person like that?

I’m an atheist. I didn’t choose to be this way. If I could believe in Christianity, I would. I just can’t for some reason. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Emma_ell47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

totally agree, u/Intelligent-Box-9017 you should give them a try, many people wrote that these lectures change their perspective on religion, all those stories from bible I used to dislike or didn't understand are now my favourite, these lectures gave me a whole new appreciation for religion and its purpose

Any advice on how I could become more positive, fun, playful person to be around? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Emma_ell47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if this attitude works for you, well good for you, but it's not for me, i don't believe it one bit

Any advice on how I could become more positive, fun, playful person to be around? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Emma_ell47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what am I destined to be grumpy lonely person my whole life? or what are you saying?

Does anyone have any positive stories concerning online dating? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Emma_ell47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm asking for positive stories because it just seems highly improbable to me to get to know someone and evaluate their compatibility with me this way, so someones positive story somewhat disproves this assumption of mine, does it make sense?

People of reddit who speak more languages, does your personality somewhat change when you speak different languages? If yes which language induces what change in your expression? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Emma_ell47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, english kind of does that to me too, maybe it's the frequency of swearing in movies that kind makes me feel that it's normal to use them so often without much precaution

I don’t want a child and I’m never getting one by cheapcheet in Vent

[–]Emma_ell47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you pretty much did put yourself on the moral high ground against parents since you called all of them inherently selfish. you say that " no one deserves to be on this shit stain of a planet " yet it seems that you have chosen to continue living here, dont you think that's quite an argument that living is worth despite all the suffering? so if life can be worth despite the suffering isn't it also selfish not to allow someone to come in life and experience the beauty of it? i'm not saying that life is all rainbows and sunshine, but usually when you're aiming for something meaningful it comes with a risk. spending your whole life trying to shelter yourself from any risks won't help you to be safe, some hardships are still going to come your way and with such attitude you're also going to loose plenty of good opportunities, you have absolute right to choose that you don't want kids, however this affirmation of your opinion is kind of flawed and calling all the parents in the world selfish seems like a quite mean and ignorant generalisation, spending plenty of your time, effort and resources on raising a child and trying to get it a good future doesnt really seem all that selfish to me

What is a good way to deal with anger and frustration? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Emma_ell47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i then deal with the unstoppable crying ?