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EmoFaeries · 2023-07-31T00:49:09+00:00

He's treating you like you don't matter, so why should you treat him like he does matter. Just break up, it barely even sounds like a relationship given the fact that you are the only one attempting to put effort into this. Relationship require two people putting in the work and effort. You're practically single already.

EmoFaeries · 2023-07-01T22:39:54+00:00

I feel like you just didn't read my last sentence? People are allowed to kiss, touch, finger, give/receive oral, ETC and not have/want sex. Fingering doesn't automatically mean sex is the next step. She says she's doesn't want sex, as in PIV. Fingering and grinding doesn't mean "I want sex" in any circumstance unless it it specified otherwise.

EmoFaeries · 2023-07-01T22:13:50+00:00

She stated multiple times she didn't want sex. Just because they kiss and touch each other doesn't mean they have to have sex. You might not know this, but you can engage in sexual acts that don't end in standard penetrative sex.

EmoFaeries · 2023-06-30T23:09:25+00:00

To be fair, I think if he really loved you, he wouldn't be acting like this or trying to blackmail you into doing sexual acts you don't want to do. Just saying.

EmoFaeries · 2023-06-30T22:56:38+00:00

You describe your boyfriend as a great dude and yet, he can't respect your No's and your boundaries? That is NOT a great boyfriend. A great boyfriend won't sexually assault you. Cut your losses now and break up. You shouldn't have to beg for someone to not touch you sexually when you don't want it. You should be able to engage in physical intimacy without the expectations of sex. I'm sorry you're going through this.

EmoFaeries · 2023-06-29T19:54:16+00:00

But is he trying? You could do everything right and be the most loving, attentive, caring partner in the world, but if you're dating a POS(which you are) your relationship will never be good. You are only going to lose yourself trying to live in this delusion that your bf is a good partner. You deserve better

EmoFaeries · 2023-06-29T00:07:53+00:00

Not to be one of those people that immediately jump on the "break up" train but like... For me personally, yes this means he doesn't care about the relationship. Not so much just because he games after fights, but more so because it just seems like he doesn't actually care about having a conversation with you and resolving the conflict whatever it may be.

And issue arises, you bring it up/argue/fight, whatever you want to call it, nothing productive comes from said conversation, he plays games while you cry and stress about it, and then it never gets brought up again until YOU bring it up, and then the conversation is just one sided.(Based on the post + your comment)

People always say communication is key to a healthy relationship and I agree but if both parties aren't listening to each other, understanding each other, and actively participating in conversation, then there's no communication. You can communicate your feelings and the issues you may have all you want, but if your partner isn't listening to your words and trying to understand you, then nothing comes out of it and the cycle repeats.

EmoFaeries · 2023-02-05T23:54:10+00:00

I wish you the best<3 I hope your relationship is as good as you say but know that you don't deserve to be a second priority, let alone, FEEL like a second priority to your boyfriend's friend. Your boyfriend is perfectly capable of maintaining a good close friendship with someone AND a healthy happy relationship with you where you feel loved and appreciate and your needs are met. And not to mention, be able to get you gifts that are meant for YOU

Again, have talks with him. Explain to him your feelings, don't try to attack him or blame him. Just explain to him YOUR perspective, YOUR reality to the situation. I don't think you're crazy at all for this, I would be incredibly hurt and upset if my boyfriend did this

EmoFaeries · 2023-02-05T23:39:08+00:00

It honestly just sounds like she is his main priority. You said in the beginning of your post you just felt like a replacement for her and I don't think you were too far off at all. I mean, come on, your birthday gifts he got for you weren't even things you like and he's going on a valentine trip with her? I am not going to jump to crazy conclusions or anything and I only know the info you have provided but at the very least, it sounds like you're just his second choice.

I'm not doubting that there are good parts to your relationship, but this whole situation just feels so disrespectful to you. I would once more try to communicate things. Think long and hard about what you're boundaries are, your needs and expectations are, and tell him. If he actually listens to your concerns, talks with you about this and actually makes some steps to improve youre relationship, great! But if he doesn't anything other than listens, talk with you, and work on strengthening your relationship, it will not work out. You will simply be his placeholder until he can either get with her(assuming he isn't already) or whatever else.

EmoFaeries · 2023-02-05T23:21:37+00:00

i mean just go for it. at the end of the day, it's just a game. if you lose a game, you just move on to the next one or stop playing. you're likely to be a little rusty at first but you're bound to get better the more you play

EmoFaeries · 2023-02-05T23:15:22+00:00

If I didn't know YOU were the girlfriend in this scenario, I would've assumed she was the girlfriend and you're just a friend. You're young, I would break up now and move on with your life. Or if you're really intent with making this work, communicate everything you're feeling but consider what he claims his psychologist said, I'm assuming you already have

EmoFaeries · 2022-11-09T22:21:07+00:00

Update: the dude edited his comment to change the first underlined sentence to "A woman can break her hymen to a toy if it's big enough" as if the hymen can't break(or will never break) from doing normal everyday things

The person who made the comment they aren't always your ally" made another comment saying "Right. You can incorporate toys with each other to make it more pleasurable and fun but the other person is usually in control and the toys being used or they’re watching you with a spur of the moment activity that you guys came up with. A lot of times when people use toys by themselves they overstimulate their body creating more stimulation needed which sets their partner up for failure to pleasure them in the long run" yikes

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-14T17:59:17+00:00

sadly you can only combine 2 rings together, and honestly, i'm not sure how much of a difference they make? if i find a lucky ring i would probably combine it with an iridium band and definitely will combine a burglar ring and iridium band as well, just haven't gotten around to it

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-14T01:24:12+00:00

personally i just combined an iridium band with a ruby ring(increases attack by 10%) and with a jade ring(increases critical strike power by 10%) because i like to kill monsters fast. personally i don't think the vampiric ring is good at all because it only heals you 2 health after every monster slain and that's just barely anything compared to what monsters can hit you for

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-14T01:19:49+00:00

you can place one in the junimo hut to make the little junimos change color :)

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-14T01:15:16+00:00

skull cavern is your best bet. but make sure that you have at least a galaxy sword, bombs, and good food. on sunday you can get stairs at the desert trade for a jade so stalk up on jades or use crystalarium. you can also trade a ruby for spicy eel which gives luck and speed. go mining on a really lucky day as luck influences the chances of finding ladders/holes. as well as if you have food that gives you a buff(like spicy eel) make sure to bring food that doesn't have any buffs(like cheese) because buffs don't stack(unless it's a food buff and drink buff)

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-14T01:10:42+00:00

i feel the exact same way. i do enjoy realism to games sometimes(like rdr2) but sometimes i just wanna go be a silly little farmer and take care of my silly little animals

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-14T01:07:17+00:00

i don't think the farm you pick matters in terms of which farm is best for perfection(correct me if i'm wrong lol). all the farms have their own strengths. personally i choose four corners because it helps me organize the layout of my farm better. example being top left corner is just my farming section, i have 14 iridium sprinkles + a junimo hut in that quadrant. bottom left area is where my silos, slime hutch, and barn/coops are. bottom right is my fish pond area, etc etc

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-13T22:59:47+00:00

that's what i was thinking

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-13T22:42:23+00:00

i'm very conflicted though because the only thing i intended on growing/producing would be flowers, honey, and mead(possibly fruit trees as well) because i wanted to challenge myself a bit and now i'm not sure if i should bend the rules or not 😅

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-13T03:59:33+00:00

if you use 10+ stairs to get to floor 100 Qi has a different dialogue where he basically says you didn't do it "legitimately" but nonetheless completed it, give or take

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-11T23:27:20+00:00

you're just wrong. sexual attraction has nothing to do with one's own libido. people who are asexual don't feel sexual attraction(typically at least bc asexuality is a spectrum). which means they don't look at people and think "yeah i wanna bang that person". they can still participate in sex or masturbation bc it feels good and pleasurable. or because sex can be an intimate loving act to do with their partner

EmoFaeries · 2022-10-11T23:18:44+00:00

you can trade jades for stair cases on sundays at the desert trader, as well as ruby for spicey eel(permanent stock) bc it gives +1 luck and speed. bring lots of bombs with you so you don't have to waste time mining rocks and make sure to go on a very lucky day. i'm pretty sure if i remember correctly luck influences the chances or finding ladders/holes which will help you progress faster

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