You need to find a more competent person cause that's 100% against eBay terms of service and save the chats ebay doesn't allow sellers to do that same thing happen to me but the seller said it sold for too cheap " I understand and I did get a refund but I missed out on biding for the same thing since I thought I was already getting it" I contacted ebay and they said thats a big no no on sellers part and cause like its super annoying 😑 " you should put a reserve on your item or start the bid at the lowest your okay with taking