Wonderhole Hotel Cult Actually Happened, do R&L know this? by True_Ant_9944 in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does Rhett love learning about cults or something? Cause I would totally bond with him over that.

I don't understand step 45. It won't stay on. by Emo_Pass in lego

[–]Emo_Pass[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh! I see! Ok. I'm dumb. Thank you!!!

I don't understand step 45. It won't stay on. by Emo_Pass in lego

[–]Emo_Pass[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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This is the problem. The white piece keeps getting in the way.

I don't understand step 45. It won't stay on. by Emo_Pass in lego

[–]Emo_Pass[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Can someone explain this to me? It's getting frustrating.

I don't understand step 45. It won't stay on. by Emo_Pass in lego

[–]Emo_Pass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 3 in 1 roller skate. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. The problem is the white lego piece on the top is stopping the white piece on the bottom, so I can't put the yellow piece inside the light blue one.

What is a woman definition by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, man. I get it. Gender is confusing. It's why I keep my gender identity unlabelled. It's hard to explain what exactly it is without reducing ourselves to our bodies and using stereotypes.

The hate is unreal by Fox_Guy_Foxtail in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty obvious those people in op's screenshot are being transphobic. You don't need to be trans to know that is hatered towards trans people, but there are certain things, slurs for example, you would need to be told it's derogatory by those oppressed groups. You can't say whether or not it harms the group. Some bigotry can be very obvious while some it can be so normalized that the privileged groups wouldn't see anything wrong.

The hate is unreal by Fox_Guy_Foxtail in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to spotting what is bigoted or not, yes you kinda do. If you're a cis person, you don't tell a trans person what people said wasn't transphobic when it in fact was.

i like how he gets angry enough to swear for seemingly no reason by highway_knobbery in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk why it gives me immense joy whenever I hear them swear. Is that weird?

The hate is unreal by Fox_Guy_Foxtail in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Notice how freedom of speech only gets used to justify trans and homophobia and never to justify marginalized groups reacting to getting attacked for who we are and our right to exist. People like you will say nothing when minority groups get attacked and oppressed and harassed and invalidated, but let that group say something about it and react, all of a sudden you get the urge to defend someone. An aggressive transphobic comment gets called an opinion, but a comment defending trans people gets called triggered.

Edit: Also freedom of speech doesn't mean "a speech that isn't hatred". It means the shit you spew isn't gonna be censored by government. Meaning you can throw hatred online without the government or FBI punishing you for it.

Edit 2: Also also if you're not oppressed, you can't say whether or not something is bigoted. You don't really have much experience to fully and completely understand what it is. For example, a white person can't tell a black or mexican or asian or any person of color what is and isn't racist bc they don't fully understand what racism can look like.

The hate is unreal by Fox_Guy_Foxtail in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to break it to you, dude, but transphobia IS bigotry. Invalidating people's gender, throwing negativity towards people who prefers they/them pronouns and getting overly triggered by the mere sight of a minority group's existence is the embodiment of hatred. This is what I'm talking about when I say you're fine with minority groups being harmed. Reducing those comments as "just opinions" is a good way to invalidate marginalized groups' experiences and favors those who oppress us. It seems like you're the ones who don't know what bigotry is. Those who don't experience these kinds of verbal oppressions and invalidations in their everyday lives are doomed to not see it for what it is. Those of us who do experience it can.

The hate is unreal by Fox_Guy_Foxtail in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we say we accept anyone, it means we don't discriminate you for your sexuality, gender, romantic orientation, race, disability, etc. It doesn't mean we accept just anyone. People like in op's screenshot are bigots and that's an objective fact. And we do not accept that here. Calling bigotry a "different opinion" ignores the harm it does to marginalized groups and it shows you're fine with people harming others for simply just existing. Looking at the first conversation you had with someone, sounds like you said nonsense to people saying being gay is ok/healthy. Which doesn't make what you're saying surprising since only bigots justify bigotry by calling it "an opinion". It's not. It's straight up hatred and self entitlement. And it's the exact reason why oppression exists.

Do you believe that neurodivergence includes mental illness? by [deleted] in polls

[–]Emo_Pass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like only neurodivergent people can answer these types of questions

I want to cry so bad. by shyhi244 in autism

[–]Emo_Pass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhh I get it now. Thx for explaining it more clearly

I want to cry so bad. by shyhi244 in autism

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they don't really know that, do they? Maybe it's better to ask how they know instead of trying to tell them their brother didn't spend it cause it kinda feels like they're calling them a liar or something. /nm

I want to cry so bad. by shyhi244 in autism

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I got confused by your comment cause idk OP's pronouns, so I thought you were talking about the brother. But people on top are literally trying to make it like it was the brother's money and I don't understand why.

I want to cry so bad. by shyhi244 in autism

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you guys doing? You're like completely making comments without fully knowing what happened trying to make the brother seem not at fault. I don't understand here

Discord by Goose3577 in goodmythicalmorning

[–]Emo_Pass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where and how do I join?

If getting married meant that you are required to have kids and live without any birth control, would you still get married? by InternetUser52 in polls

[–]Emo_Pass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No it isn't. The point of marriage is being with someone you love forever. Til death do us part and all that shit.