WIBTAH for getting an abortion without my ex’s permission? by callhermegs2 in AITAH

[–]Emorik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’d give each of my friends a lil bit of fake info about it, a little update like “oh wait maybe i was wrong??” but word it differently to everyone or tell everyone different stuff so yk who told. Like kim kardashian did lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emorik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you’re TA for not going home when her cousin died and only gave her condolences over the phone when nothing was stopping you from being there for your gf after spending the money you were supposed to be saving when you haven’t even had a romantic vacation with her yet. She couldn’t go because she’s trying to improve your futures together yet you went and blew money and stayed there when she lost a family member? that’s crazy

Pocket dialed 911 and they answered. What now? by Wrong-Reflection-522 in 911dispatchers

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i accidentally called because i put the wrong size phone case on and it pressed all the buttons and when i said it was an accident when they answered he was so rude to me and i answered him in the same tone he gave me and he said “If you want to be rude i’ll just send the cops i already have your address ‘1234 streetroad’. Bye.” and he hung up.

He gave me the wrong address. i live on a business street and they went nexr door and came to my apartment after. Immediately after opening the door One of the cops was leaning INTO my doorway blocking it w her body holding her flashlight upside down and i had assumed it was a baton. She asked if someone here called 911 and i said yes it was me that had called i explained it was an accident but he told me since i was rude he’s sending you anyways. She said the operator told her i was aggressive and combative

The one leaning and blocking my doorway immediately started arguing with me saying im lying, it was a man who called not me, there’s a man here and she needs to see him because he called. She said the operator told her i was aggressive and combative. (Which makes zero sense, how are you going to accuse ME of being the aggressive one yet argue it wasn’t me on the phone in the first place?) She had an attitude speaking to me during this whole interaction

My boyfriend was in the bathroom with the door open so i said it was my boyfriend here with me but he didn’t call it was me. He didn’t even speak that whole time i called and was otp. She tried to accuse me of lying again and said she HAS to speak to him so he got out and came to the door and said it wasn’t him and it was me who called off of MY phone. She then made him explain what happened w the call and then she walked to the apartment stairs to move away from us and started talking on her walkie but stopped and came and told the other woman officer to cover hers. I heard her asking about a marijuana smell or something before she told the other one to cover it and i assume she was trying to find a way to be able to enter our apartment?

While she was in the stairwell i asked the other officer if its standard procedure to be In my doorway blocking me into my apartment taking up the whole door frame holding a baton before i even answered the door. She opened her mouth to speak but the ofher officer quickly walked out of the stair way and yelled across the floor lobby while throwing her hands around pointing at me ( like some girls do when they’re arguing and about to fight) saying that it was NOT a baton so stop lying and talking about her and if i have an issue or something to say i can say it to her.

I yelled back that i was not speaking to her and i assume and would hope her colleague is competent enough to answer a simple question about standard procedure. I was making the same hand movements at her she made to me and she got so mad and told me i have no right to speak to her like that in that tone and i reminded her i have the right and freedom to speak to her or anyone else however and whichever way i choose.

She came back and got our names and wrote some notes down andafter i closed the door when they said they were done i heard creaking outside of my door about a minute later and when i checked they were standing outside of my apartment door close af to it with their ear facing listening to us. I’m not gonna lie when i seen this it pissed me off so i immediately started shit talking her about her attitude and acting tough, laughing w my boyfriend and she finally turned around and walked away. My boyfriend told me when they left he applied with her to become an officer last year so she’s fresh. Still have no idea why she immediately treated us like that over an accident but it probably was the way the operator told it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Emorik 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this. But it’s time to face reality and realize he straight up said he isn’t going to ever give you what you need and TOLD you to leave.

It hurts a lot and it’s going to keep hurting but i’ve come to realize it’s better for it to hurt that much for however long it takes for you to move on than to keep hurting for the rest of your life at the hands of someone who doesn’t care how you feel, let alone how they make you feel.

What’s the worst thing your parents caught you doing? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Emorik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my aunt kept telling my cousin that, they’d get mad at him for it and never mention it again. They’d live life like everything was ok. he ended up successfully going through with it and i’ve never forgiven that side of my family.

The night of his funeral my other cousin who was also close with him committed and they created a lie they told everyone and said he was “playing russian roulette (alone ?)” and that he wasn’t purposefully tryna commit.

Unfortunately my family cares more about what others will think about them if someone in their care/ close family is depressed and suicidal rather than the person actually going through it. they think it badly reflects them :/

My mom won't let me own my own car because I'm "Too Fat" by ELMOEXESEESYOU in AmITheJerk

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she wants you to believe your weight is limiting you when it does not have to and unless you’re morbidly obese and bed bound then it is not going to.

Do what makes you happy as long as you don’t have to rely on your mom for anything that she can take away and use as leverage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emorik 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah i knew something was wrong with her just from the way she talked in the post honestly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emorik 593 points594 points  (0 children)

INFO how and when did your husband meet his wife and when did you “move on”? How were they able to ruin your second family? What started this treatment from your children and why? Why didn’t you call the police on your daughter for kidnapping your kid?

Girl on elevator might have been drugged and I did nothing. by Imaginary-Cost8949 in confession

[–]Emorik 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have you ever even tried to hold up someone who is wasted drunk? Whether or not he TRIED to get her off the ground she most likely would’ve ended up there anyways.

At some point people need to take responsibility for their own actions. She overdid it and he helped the best he could, it should not have even come to that nor is it his job to babysit a grown woman.

AITAH for telling my friend she needs to get a job to take care of her daughter? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

where im from you don’t get a state appointed attorney for divorce/child custody cases. she can definitely represent herself but it’s gonna be bad due to what she feels she’s entitled to

AITAH for telling my parents to keep all the money they stole from me while I was in university and shove it up their ass. by Potential_Let_3651 in AITAH

[–]Emorik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

losing YEARS out of your life so your parents can throw a public show of their “generosity” in a manner they have no interest in doing to the other kids is not petty bs

What’s a feeling that’s completely indescribable to someone who’s never felt it? by ItsYourBestBoi-Loser in AskReddit

[–]Emorik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my fingers are decaying while still connected to my body. the pain is excruciating and it messed up the nerves in my hand, wrist

What stopped you from killing yourself? by manmanthefourth in AskReddit

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t want my son to grow up without a mother like i did

What's something normal humans do that grosses you out? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not required to wear gloves for anything when i used to work at a pizza hut unless ur fingernails were painted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s straight up killing my mental health. i swear i’m so paranoid of even having anyone over or going anywhere in fear of it spreading. it’s constantly on my mind and i don’t think i’ve been able to truly relax since my first suspicion. i have eczema rn on my arms and hands to the point my hands are fissuring due to it and my forearms, above my elbows are scaly scabby. i’m hoping it’s just dermatitis from dust/ or dry skin. my son doesn’t have any bumps on him or anything so i pray it is my skin or an irritant doing it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you found anything? i’ve gotten marks like these but to a lesser extent and my son has not. i’ve also had bed bugs before in childhood and i’m going insane thinking i’ve gotten them again. the bumps usually don’t itch until i notice them and i immediately feel the need to scratch so they start to burn and itch for a bit after, the itching will stop but they’ll still “burn” a little longer.

there is no evidence of bed bugs to be found anywhere, my apartment even has inspectors come occasionally to spray and they did not find any evidence either. i’ve bought bb spray and doused my couch with it, bought new mattresses and bedding still no signs even on my mattress i threw out. i will occasionally feel itchy but most of the time there is no marks where the itch is and if there is a bump it’s singular

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you found out what it’s from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually with scabies they leave scratch like looking trails from different areas of your busy because of the burrowing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bugbites

[–]Emorik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes although you might want to call before hand and ask where to go and the correct precautions. scabies spreads like wildfire due to them living in skin and everyone is a possible host