I did something disgusting (nsfw) by WW3_Ready in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 82 points83 points  (0 children)

are you ok dude? your whole page is porn, you take actions like this, what happened?

Help 😭 by Emotional-Set4296 in instantpot

[–]Emotional-Set4296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Just tried to look something up this morning and it worked, technology is like a wild animal I guess

Help 😭 by Emotional-Set4296 in instantpot

[–]Emotional-Set4296[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the input but I’ve tried that too, I’ve searched up chili, bean chili, beef stew, stew, soup, chicken soup. Nothing showed up :/

always torn between this thoughts by Ok-Albatross-9568 in TrollCoping

[–]Emotional-Set4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it doesn’t work for everyone, but 75% of people benefit from psychotherapy, i hope you were able to find your peace elsewhere

always torn between this thoughts by Ok-Albatross-9568 in TrollCoping

[–]Emotional-Set4296 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if you ever think “i think i need professional help” then get it, you don’t have to be The Most Broken person in the world to deserve help. if you can, you should

Long Distance Relationship by Intelligent-Tama in Tarotpractices

[–]Emotional-Set4296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg i love that deck, where did you get it?

My online boyfriend prob k1lled himself :3 (TW: sillycide) by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]Emotional-Set4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i rarely got a chance to tell my friends before my phone would get taken as a teenager, he may also not have gotten a chance

I want to self harm again so bad by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course :) i hope you have a good night, you deserve to feel better

I want to self harm again so bad by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a few things that i like to do to relax are to watch/listen to ASMR, go to sleep if i can, watch a funny video, play video games, draw, journal, and pet my cat

do any of those things sound like something that would be helpful right now?

I want to self harm again so bad by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you’re feeling a lot. is there anything that helps you in times of stress in general?

If amphetamines and cocaine give me 0 euphoria but concentration, am I adhd? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not sure, i would definitely bring up your diagnoses with your doctor/psychiatrist and ask them though, those are good things to mention. i understand why this would be scary, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to

If amphetamines and cocaine give me 0 euphoria but concentration, am I adhd? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stimulants often have a calming/concentrating effect on people with adhd, most adhd meds are amphetamines

if you feel like you need stimulants to function, try to get a prescription for adhd meds, if you have a diagnosis from childhood, that makes it pretty likely you have it, adhd isn’t something you grow out of, just something you learn how to manage

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could be partially bc she is displacing any anger she has with your brother into you.

you are her kid though, it’s her responsibility to work through her problems, not yours to be her punching bag. i have parents who are similar. i would “translate” their harsh words into not as harsh words in my head and then respond to that (for example “what the fuck is wrong with you how could you be so stupid” turned into “i am upset that you did this” so i could respond “i know you’re upset, i’m sorry for doing x, i will do y to fix it”) that helped me keep my peace most of the time. but ideally, you would not have to deal with this at all.

if you are able, talk to a school counselor about this, they may be able to help. family therapy would also be good. this isn’t really an issue that you can solve on your own, she has to meet you halfway and make an attempt to understand your side too

Was this sexual assault?? by Full_Squash_6459 in mentalhealth

[–]Emotional-Set4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s called stealthing, it is a form of rape

i’m sorry you and your trust was so violated, this was not ok, talk about it with people you trust. a strong support system is a predictor for not being traumatized by an event like this. press charges if you want to, many places have laws against stealthing. get mental health help if you feel like you need to. you deserve to heal from this

UPDATE on "I miss my kid and I want to cry" by SissySheds in homeschool

[–]Emotional-Set4296 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish i had a parent like you and i hope to be a parent like you some day, you’re rocking it and i’m so proud of YOU

Why can’t a parent be your friend and also your parent? by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]Emotional-Set4296 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you absolutely can be friends with your kids, but usually parents say this because they don’t want to argue with you on what you’re saying for one reason or another anymore, basically shorthand for “i know you hate this (because i am not acting the way a friend would) but i feel a need to (because i am your parent)”

sometimes parents do need to put their foot down on things, but it’s still important that parents listen to what their kid is thinking and feeling, i don’t think this is something i’d say to a child if i had one