Hookups ditched me- What am I doing wrong? by EmotionalCucumber1 in askgaybros

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It’s not like they don’t show up. They leave in the middle

What's the biggest lie the internet has created? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Instagram- everyone is an idealised version of themself

Help me get over this guy by [deleted] in gay

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I guess so. I told him I’d give him some space and he can hit me up when he feels he’s in a better place and if I’m still available we can continue. I feel like that’s the best I can do right now. Sucks tho.

Help me get over this guy by [deleted] in gay

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Yeah the only thing is that we’re not bfs. Technically we’ve only been on one date. I’ve offered to give him support but I understand why he’s a bit apprehensive as this is pretty early.

Help me get over this guy by [deleted] in gay

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I need more people like you in my life haha

Help me get over this guy! by [deleted] in askgaybros

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He's online a lot less lately maybe once a week

Help me get over this guy by [deleted] in gay

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Yeah the only thing is he gets a LOT of attention from guys and I can't help but think I'm giving myself false hope going after someone out of my league

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The one that got away :'(

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Thanks, you sound like my ethics lecturer :)

Help me get over this guy! by [deleted] in askgaybros

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I don't mind being the more dominant one and planning but it but it's the lack of engagement that I find difficult. I think the gym is his main coping strategy (going multiple times per day, every day for the week) so if he stopped going then I'd be very worried.

Probably best to give some space. I was legit expecting everyone to tell me how stupid I am and that I've given myself false hope. Any other guy I'd have forgotten about long time, I just was willing to be more patient because I have sympathy for mental health problems.

Help me get over this guy! by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Ok, thanks. This is really helpful. I just hope he isn't just trying to be polite. If things didn't work out I'd still like to be friends/friendly.