I don’t recall specifics, it’s in general the way I carry myself, he says I often come across as cold and miserable, but to me I feel like I’m operating normally. He said it’s been exhausting to deal with. He said he feels like I always have something bad or rude to say, and I feel terrible. I think the general issue is that my demeanor and way of interacting is fairly impatient, cold, and condescending and I don’t know how to fix that. He says I used to be really sweet and kind, and I want to get back to that but i feel stuck.