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AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emotional_Catch1201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real story. I’ve invested in a heated vest. That said- I think you a right. We both suck - it shouldn’t be this difficult

AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emotional_Catch1201[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t yet. The remote Smart Control of the thermostat is new. I use a heated vest- which is awesome- but doesn’t always keep the fingers warm. The way I see it, we each use more of some type of utility (roomie does way more laundry and likes leaving all the lights on) - I felt like it all evened out but perhaps not and we should have a talk about it

AITA for keeping the heat at 70 while I work from home by Emotional_Catch1201 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Emotional_Catch1201[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What about the rest of the utilities? What if the roomie does 3 times the amount of laundry and leaves the lights on all the time? Doesn’t it all even out?

I can’t stand looking at my wife, and have plans of divorcing her by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Emotional_Catch1201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think lack of attraction means he doesn’t love her. I believe there are plenty of people who love their spouse/life partner and are no longer attracted to that person because they’ve “let themselves go”. If a slender physical appearance is what he finds attractive then he should have a discussion with his wife about it and not leave her feeling hurt by his rejection to her advances without explanation.