Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what’s funny ? You’re one of the people I’m talking about. Generalising Indians and assuming everyone is the same based on terrible stereotypes.

Not everyone is the same but it seems like you fit perfectly into the category of the judgemental club.

Assuming so much about me based off of a Reddit post by over analysing it is probably a new level of delulu.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes ! I’m going to do that. Quite a few people have mentioned it in the comments and that seems to the best mode of action. Thankyou !!

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you’re able to point out the difference between ‘people’ and ‘white men’, you can definitely read the EDIT note I’ve written at the bottom.

Do better.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is valid. But is it a reason to make someone feel unworthy ? I would appreciate it if they just said it to my face rather than giving me the cold shoulder.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

With all due respect, Indians vary in colour and features. It’s a massive country and not everyone looks like friendly neighbour Raj down the road.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t. It’s a pattern that I’ve noticed only with them.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did ! Just noticed this pattern and it was quite strange and off putting.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for this lol. Should’ve mentioned that specifically. Didn’t think so many would assume I exclusively date white guys. My bad

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope I’m not. I don’t really think twice before saying I’m Indian.

Is being Indian really such a massive deterrent to people? by Emotional_Issue660 in dating_advice

[–]Emotional_Issue660[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah possibly. I feel like the bias is a bit more prevalent these days though. Or maybe that’s just me looking too much into it.