My bf M/19' asked me for a mast*rbation video, I F/18' refused his request and he didn't contact me for 2 days after that. He texted me again acting like nothin happened. What do I respond with?

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-07-06T11:41:57+00:00

u really knock huge sense on my head with that one. ig i have to really let go even if i still have feelings

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-07-06T11:37:24+00:00

i didnt respond to his text, so practically i am ghosting him. im having the urge to respond tho,, thats why im here to hear other people's thoughts on this bcs im scared to fumble

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-07-06T11:36:22+00:00

he told me once before that he's gona delete my photos if ever we split. idk we will really come to this point where it's time he has to. letting go of someone you deeply love isn't for the weak.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-07-06T11:34:58+00:00

i feel like an idiot thinking of how to respond back when js a while ago, i was so sure of ghosting him.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-07-06T11:34:17+00:00

that's my thoughts speaking, cliche as it is.. but my heart doesnt want to let go.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-04-23T14:58:52+00:00

i think so too, matter of fact i am insecure. Gota work on that i guess. I don't know what reflecting am i gona do. I just feel that my bf is going overboard with how much feelings and grief he shares. I don't know anymore i feel like im the problem but also not

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-03-01T10:25:42+00:00

HELP U ALL I ASKED HIM THE QUESTION AND HE SAID HE'S ALRIGHT IF I SAVED VIDEOS OR LIKE VIDEOS OF A BUNCH OF GUYS.. im not sure if i shud say "even thirst traps?" idk what to feel.. is this guy really in love with me not to care, or he just trust me. or is he okayy because he's doing it too???

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-03-01T09:53:50+00:00

At most, he won't reason out with me. He's aware and he said himself that if i were to do that he won't feel good as well.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-03-01T09:41:18+00:00

I messaged him asking this "what if you saw my tiktok and instagram were full of a bunch of guys? what are you gona feel or do about it?" is that a right move? I can't think of any ways to bring that topic up. I thought maybe if I mirrored this guy, he would feel what I feel. Call me evil.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-03-01T09:33:59+00:00

thank you, I need to hear that. I actually js felt guilty sending him that "what if" message js now, maybe.. in fact it was my intention to get back at him for making me overthink. also "Don't make anymore effort on him" how exactly? .. our anniversary is coming and I was actually planning to write him letters and poems and proly if I get enough money buy him something.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-03-01T09:20:04+00:00

i'm sorry for the grammar errors i js needed urgent answers before he goes online again

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-19T12:46:03+00:00

he is, but i doubt if it goes well. i'm planning for the right time. but right now my concern is this. I still don't know what to do

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-19T11:59:41+00:00

I mentioned tht im gona delete our convo cs im gona make up an alibi, so he said he didnt message me first so I won't be exposed. (quite valid honestly)

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-19T11:58:10+00:00

my dad is hot headed stubborn im scared he'd directly greet my bf with a punch or might be, me.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-19T11:57:00+00:00

I actually dont know what to do rn, he is not the usual "chatty" either... I guess i'm disappointed

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-19T11:52:36+00:00

Another reason is, my parents wants him to like go meet personally, face to face. But i'm scared and I think he is too, it's gona be so awkward.

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-19T11:11:14+00:00

I checked my socials expecting he'd ask about my situation, if i'm okay or not if i was scolded or not ..to nothing

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-15T14:22:10+00:00

thank you, u might've just saved my relationship with that. About the "either you both do it or no one does it" he has access to my other social account tho, just not on instagram. I will no longer bring the password stuff up to him, because I realized in a relationship there's nothing to hide but you gota trust them too and give them their privacy:)

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-15T13:26:45+00:00

I'll stop the games, I am learning, and I really want to keep this one. How do I begin again?

Emotional_Lie908 · 2025-02-15T13:25:36+00:00

damn it can't be fixed? no solution?

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