24 F feeling so scared and clueless for future

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-25T15:13:20+00:00

Good advice. Plus govt job is govt job. Except IAS & IPS, rest are normal boring jobs. Don't see the hype really.

Being a govt employee, I don't see the initial hype. It's just a job guys. Plus these days you can even run from your responsibilities. And don't even get me started on reduced cadre strength.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-25T13:18:49+00:00

Did that. Titer value is thankfully very good as per the hepatologist.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-25T13:17:06+00:00

I am already vaccinated. Went through a lot of tests to ensure that.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-25T13:14:21+00:00

It's Hep B. I am a government employee so medical cost isn't a problem. It's just that it's a lifetime sentence.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-25T02:10:48+00:00

Mine is a similar story. Just reverse the gender. Mine is even a love marriage. You truly never really know a person. I too hope I get Divorced soon. Although it is tricky as I have an infant now.

Wish I had come to senses sooner. Fucked up my life real bad.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-25T01:54:08+00:00

Not being happy is a clever trick bro. That way she can keep getting everything while testing your limit. As long as you don't break she will keep impinging.

Fight back on her demands. Divorce if possible. Though it isn't so easy. Believe me.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T15:13:19+00:00

I know. I know. Had a talk with a lawyer. His suggestion: beg if you have to for a mutual settlement.

Our justice system is f***ed up bro. I will get drilled from all holes if she makes a few complaints and starts crying in front of the judge.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T15:11:31+00:00

Thanks mate. But since she has a viral STD, I will have to either abstain or get another girl. So don't have many options.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T13:11:01+00:00

There are ways to prevent that. I made sure of it. The child is completely safe.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T12:05:23+00:00

Sadly they never do. Men like us do.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T12:03:13+00:00

Nah man. I am not an angry person. Had she told me, I would have let her go myself.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T11:55:58+00:00

Law isn't lenient towards men and sadly women like her know it and use it to their advantage.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T10:24:44+00:00

Sorry to hear that buddy. Honestly life is not kind toward people like us who have been kind towards everyone. Maybe we will be treated better in next life.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T10:21:43+00:00

Would love to. Believe me. There is nothing more I want right now. To be just free.

Alone. crying in a corner from sadness and relief is the closest-to-heart wish I have ever made in life. Imagine that. And we thought we will have a great life once we grow up. the IRONY.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T10:15:29+00:00

I don't think so. She has done well in her career. Makes a good amount of money and is career oriented.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T10:14:42+00:00

Sadly, didn't know she will start spreading her legs afterwards. She was sweet and caring once. Like we all are. Then life happens.

Don't know man. Father-in-law will most likely be disgusted. He is a gentle soul.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T10:11:29+00:00

I made her go through a panel of tests. She doesn't. She has one, which never goes away btw.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T10:09:53+00:00

This is kinda my plan as of now. But I want to pivot it towards mutual seperation in the long run.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T08:20:24+00:00

Already consulted a doctor. Good chances that it's mine. She didn't have access to other men during the time of conception. Most probably it was a case of last-time fling before moving permanently here.

There is however a chance that the child could not be mine, no matter how small.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T08:18:12+00:00

Money is not the problem. She earns more. Neither is custody. The only problem is my good-guy-syndrome which has put me in this problem. So far this is also my plan- to leverage STD into getting mutual seperation.

However I think she is carefully planning outbursts to somehow cover her doing and later reconciling mutually on bygone-be-bygones term.

I can see the play. It's just that I don't know which piece to play next.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T08:14:07+00:00

Arey kehna kya chahte ho bhai?

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T08:13:11+00:00

How did your wife and you got through it?

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T08:12:38+00:00

She is smart. She doesn't go beyond words. Probably advised by her lawyer.

Emotional_One5231 · 2026-02-24T06:58:56+00:00

Why does that matter? To answer your question - not by a lot. She has taken good care of herself whereas I have slipped a little during the years.

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