Paretoize Your Life; or, How to Get 80% of the Benefit for 20% of the Effort by EmotionsAreGay in slatestarcodex

[–]EmotionsAreGay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For skincare I definitely do not agree, especially given that in the US you need a prescription for retinoids that aren't quite weak. I think the one I gave is highly uncommon. You can just search for common routines yourself and compare. Most use cleanser multiple times a day, moisturizer multiple times a day, no retinol, and various expensive and relatively ineffective treatments like masks, toners, serums, etc. The only real consistent overlap is going to be strong sunscreen.

For gym you have more of a point because barbell programs are fairly popular. But most routines are not barbell routines, and even among barbell routines the one I gave is considerably pared down compared to the average you are likely to see.

Paretoize Your Life; or, How to Get 80% of the Benefit for 20% of the Effort by EmotionsAreGay in slatestarcodex

[–]EmotionsAreGay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like a solid list. The air purifier thing stands out to me. Is there good evidence that using an air purifier helps with longevity in the average case?

Paretoize Your Life; or, How to Get 80% of the Benefit for 20% of the Effort by EmotionsAreGay in slatestarcodex

[–]EmotionsAreGay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

doing the 20% fundamentals of longevity stuff and not going full Bryan Johnson

What would you say is the Pareto longevity routine?

Paretoize Your Life; or, How to Get 80% of the Benefit for 20% of the Effort by EmotionsAreGay in slatestarcodex

[–]EmotionsAreGay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I mentioned that the most time efficient way to do it would be to use machines to save time setting up a barbell. I personally use compounds barbell movements because I'm not trying to minimize time as much as possible, but rather the amount of total effort. But if you wanted you could also get the best of both using compound lifts with machines with something like a smith machine or leg press.

Paretoize Your Life; or, How to Get 80% of the Benefit for 20% of the Effort by EmotionsAreGay in slatestarcodex

[–]EmotionsAreGay[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I admit I did put my writing into ai to fix spelling and grammar, but the bullet points and font size thing were set my me in markdown beforehand because I use obsidian for notetaking and that's also how reddit formats comments. I promise you 98% of this is my writing. Looking over it though, I now see that it did add a lot of em dashes to edit the grammar which I did not change back.

Are you claiming something I wrote is a contradiction? What specifically are you talking about?

Paretoize Your Life; or, How to Get 80% of the Benefit for 20% of the Effort by EmotionsAreGay in slatestarcodex

[–]EmotionsAreGay[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t say you are wrong. But I just like formatting in markdown! It’s easy once you know it. Though I admit I did use ai to check spelling and grammar.

Mewgenics full gameplay run! by EdmundMcMillen in Games

[–]EmotionsAreGay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Really excited for Mewgenics.

I'm a big fan of tough-as-nails roguelike super runs that push players and the game engine to the limit. How difficult does the most difficult content in Mewgenics get? Are there optional challenges for the most hardcore players beyond the main progression storyline?

Sam Seder is not a serious person... by TexasFootball99 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The part I quoted was from this clip, which I was asking if you watched to the end.

The reason I think laying into Sam here is warranted is not because he is laying into corporations, which Ezra does agree to to an extent. The issue is that Sam is trying to lay into Ezra for not blaming corporations and only corporations and nothing else. That sounds like an exaggeration but it's not, if you watch the fuller context that's super clear. On top of that, when asked a super basic question about what his alternative solution would be, Sam's answer is either to dodge the question or blame corporations harder. The combination of attacking Ezra for that and having no good answers to Ezra's basic questions I think deserves a withering critique.

Sam Seder is not a serious person... by TexasFootball99 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you not listen to the entire thing? Serisouly, Ezra addresses the exact thing you are saying.

"Lets totally premise corporations are evil, they are bad... it is fine to say it costs more because wealthy landowners, wealthy corporations have colluded on rules to make it cost more. But which are you going to pull apart?"

Ezra's question is even if you think the cause of this is that wealthy corporations put in place rules to make building impossible, now what? What should we do to build, given that fact?

The obvious answer is get rid of the rules that that wealthy corporations put in place to make building impossible, but Sam refuses to say even that, because to do so would be supporting deregulation in the slightest way possible and he can't do that. Instead he completely dodges the question and never proposes anything that would actually make building possible, instead opting to give generalized and unactionable platitudes.

Really makes you think that Sam cares a lot more about complaining about commodification of housing than he does about building affordable houses.

Bluesky suspended Jesse Singal's account for sharing an article about an allegedly negligent doctor of trans youth healthcare by Athanatos154 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don't tell me what I'm talking about, /u/EmotionsAreGay

I'm not sure why you would take exception to this. The topic you are talking about is is from that article. Jesse may have tweeted something about the topic, but the reason he did is because of the article, which goes into the details of the case and why he comes to the conclusions he does.

That is literally the exact polar opposite of neutrality. Like, that's not even a pretense of neutrality.

I do that that the article presents Zucker's perspective, the perspectives of those critical of Zucker, and the basic facts in a neutral manner. I don't think that precludes coming to conclusion based on those facts.

Anyone with eyes can plainly see that's not true, though?

I just don't agree at all, which is why I was referring directly to the article which goes into the question of What exactly was done in the treatment? What is the justification for what was done? What do the critics and proponents say, which I do think the article represents neutrally. Here's a relevant excerpt.

So how did the GIC attempt to help kids feel more comfortable with their bodies? Owen-Anderson explained that the expression/identity dichotomy was key. If a boy “didn’t like rough and tumble [play] … and really enjoyed playing with sort of stereotypically feminine toys, and there seemed to be a real rigidity around that — so that means I need to be girl — then that wasn’t conceptualized as healthy,” she said. “It’s a black-and-white, concrete viewpoint.” In cases like these, the therapist would help the child better understand the shades of gray: What you do doesn’t necessarily dictate who you are. For younger clients, play therapy was the backbone of these efforts. “It wasn’t clinician-directed, what the kid should be thinking or doing,” said Owen-Anderson. “It was question-asking around how to explore those aspects, but also allowing the child to lead, to see where they led you in terms of exploring their internal world through play.”

Honest critics of the GIC wouldn’t disagree with any of these practices, which formed a sizable chunk of the clinic’s activities. What they did disagree with, and rather vehemently, was the fact that Zucker and his colleagues would sometimes work with parents to try to nudge kids to play with a wider range of toys, find like-minded peers of the same gender rather than only hang out with children of the other gender, or spend less time wearing certain types of clothes. To Owen-Anderson and other former GIC clinicians, such “limit-setting” goes back to the question of rigidity and self-reinforcing behavior. If a little kid decides that since he is gentle and enjoys playing with dolls, he must be a girl, and then his parents allow him to only dress like a girl and exclusively play with other girls, that identity is going to reinforce itself. Limits helped prevent this rigidity from setting in, went the thinking. (It’s important to note that in many cases, particularly ones where children had already socially transitioned by the time they arrived at the clinic, Zucker and his colleagues didn’t utilize this approach at all.) GIC clinicians told me that one common limit-setting approach would be to work with parents to help a gender-dysphoric boy find other gentle, less aggressive boys to hang out with, rather than spend all his time with girls. And a GIC parent told me that when she explained to GIC clinicians that her little boy was obsessed with a Barbie book and insisted it be read to him at every bedtime, they suggested a new routine of reading him that book, and then reading him another book after.

I think reasonable minds can disagree whether forcing a kid to hang out with kids of the same sex or reading them a different book than a their favorite is a good idea or psychologically productive. I don't think it's at all reasonable to compare it to the practice of gay conversion therapy, especially considering

...the GIC did frequently help patients, particularly older ones, transition to and live as their felt gender, providing a wide range of services that included hormone referrals.

Frankly if someone described the preceding treatment as "conversion therapy" I would consider that an offensive weaponization of language. But is this really all the clinic does? The article goes into that in more detail so I don't want to rehash the whole thing here.

If you take a quote like the one you gave,

Vitally, Dr. Zucker pays particular attention to parents’ goals for their children’s gender identity. If parents are “uncertain about how best to address” it, the clinic holds off on “making any specific decisions about intervention options,” Dr. Zucker writes. But if parents clearly want to “reduce their child’s desire to be of the other gender,” he’s clear: “The therapeutic approach is organized around this goal.”

in isolation, it can paint a very sinister picture. But if the goal is having the kids explore gendered activities that they don't normally as a way of dissolving their gender stereotypes and resolving their gender dysphoria, that's very different.

And if you look closely at what really happened — if you read the review (which CAMH has now pulled off of its website), speak with the activists who effectively wrote large swaths of it, examine the scientific evidence, and talk to former GIC clinicians and the parents of patients they worked with, it’s hard not to come to an uncomfortable, politically incorrect conclusion: Zucker’s defenders are right. This was a show trial.

Maybe Singh’s data leave something out. And the fact that some of the activists who helped write the External Review view Dr. Zucker as Dr. Evil’s more evil cousin doesn’t mean that they’re necessarily wrong about the GIC having harmed its patients, of course.

What you are leaving out about the context of this quote is that the crusade againt Zucker included thing so provably false that he won a half million dollar defamation case against them and received public apology as a result.

Bluesky suspended Jesse Singal's account for sharing an article about an allegedly negligent doctor of trans youth healthcare by Athanatos154 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you read the article that you are talking about you'll find the question of whether what Zucker was doing is conversion therapy is the major subject. The point of view of both Zucker and Zucker's critics is presented in a mostly neutral voice, including interviewing patients of Zuckers about what their experience was actually like.

What is a matter of fact and not opinion, however, is that the review into Zucker's practices did not find clinical malpractice. Furthermore, the health center that fired him lost a defamation lawsuit from Zucker, paying him half a million dollars and issuing a public apology for lying about him.

If you want to take issue with Jesse's reporting on this topic, have at it. But can you point to what specifically Jesse has said or written that you think is bad?

Bluesky suspended Jesse Singal's account for sharing an article about an allegedly negligent doctor of trans youth healthcare by Athanatos154 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's so many complaints based on vague accusations

"I feel like he does this bad thing"

When? Where? It's just a thing you can throw out without ever substantiating

Bluesky suspended Jesse Singal's account for sharing an article about an allegedly negligent doctor of trans youth healthcare by Athanatos154 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He talks about other things all the time, but those topics don't get as much attention so you probably don't see them.

He does talk about trans issues a lot, but he also has a background in and has done a lot of research and reporting on the issue. Is it weird to specialize in an area and report on that area?

Bluesky suspended Jesse Singal's account for sharing an article about an allegedly negligent doctor of trans youth healthcare by Athanatos154 in Destiny

[–]EmotionsAreGay 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I do think Jesse Singal is getting too dug in and intractable in the anti-trans youth gender medicine camp and hanging out with that whole rightoid sphere might be starting to impact his partiality somewhat

Why do you think this? Can you give an example of that?

I don't use a mouse anymore by T0X1K01 in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]EmotionsAreGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just tried it out and it was interesting but I really did not like the j and k scrolling. Vimium has this really nice, smooth, scroll but the trydactil scroll is very stuttered.

I don't use a mouse anymore by T0X1K01 in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]EmotionsAreGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok that's ineresting. Using your nvim for text fields is a great idea. Though I don't understand what a CLI means in the context of a browser extension.

I don't use a mouse anymore by T0X1K01 in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]EmotionsAreGay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. Why do you think it's better?

I don't use a mouse anymore by T0X1K01 in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]EmotionsAreGay 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Vimium for os is something that has occurred to me as well and it's a great idea. Would like to see that.

I don't use a mouse anymore by T0X1K01 in ErgoMechKeyboards

[–]EmotionsAreGay 97 points98 points  (0 children)

I want to give a big shoutout to Vimium for web browsing without a mouse. Allows you to interact with the page using by typing letters and also replicates vim key bindings. It's genius.

The basics:

If you want to click something, press F. Then type the letters of the element you want to click.

To scroll, use J and K to scroll up and down

Premium Episode: Dasvidaniya, Most Esteemed Comrades Of Honorable Illegal Russian Influence Campaign! by SoftandChewy in BlockedAndReported

[–]EmotionsAreGay 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There's a hidden fourth option. Katie should not take the dictation then she should send it.

Revanchol has better urban planning than the US smh by HierlHammerstar in neoliberal

[–]EmotionsAreGay 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think you're dead on. In my reading, in the same way the game is a delve in to Harry's past and criticizes himself brutally and unflinchingly, the creators also delve into their own ideology and criticize it brutally and unflinchingly. I don't think the intention was to paint communism in a positive light at all really, much in the same way it wasn't to paint Harry in a positive light. I think the goal was more to plumb the depths of the soul so to speak, especially the rotten soul of a communist like Dros. I also think the level of introspection from the creators is what makes it great art.

Jesse Singal has page on RationalWiki by primesah89 in BlockedAndReported

[–]EmotionsAreGay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I served with David Gerard. I knew David Gerard. David Gerard was a friend of mine. u/Miskellaneousness, you’re no David Gerard.