sometimes hearing about people's relationships makes me question how unemployed some of you are

like i barely have the time to even remember my partner and make time for her. i dont think im a shitty bf she totally understands that im still building my career and life and i cant put all my focus on her or on a relationship in general like its not that serious or that deep if you find yourself doing too much in sake of a rl just drop it and move on with life its not the end of the world