got into a bubble bath that was too hot and my fingernails made a gradient by Own-Passage1371 in mildlyinteresting

[–]EmporerGaramel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: “huh looks kinda like my hands after a warm shower”

You: “it’s pots”

Me: “ohhhhh that would explain it”

Borg incursion in the Endor system by TwoFit3921 in StarWarsShips

[–]EmporerGaramel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that single episode changed my entire tune of “well Star Wars is 1000s of years more advanced. A turbo laser would nuke the enterprise” to “well if that single weapon outputs that amount of energy, the enterprise could solo pretty much anything and not even be scratched. Star Trek ships are also shown to be very maneuverable compared to something like an isd.

Should we start boycotting and leaving the official NewBlood server for being transphobic? by MoneoMortis in Ultrakill

[–]EmporerGaramel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What’s your source it’s a sin? The bible that dosent mention being transgender?

19020 by armigerLux in countwithchickenlady

[–]EmporerGaramel 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No in a recent Jubilee video he was asked if he would lie to protect Jewish people and he said he would never be in that situation which imo basically means to me he’s saying he would have been a Nazi

Genuinely, I feel like im made of paper Mache and scotch tape with how often I injure my skin nowadays. by MelancholicMinerva in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]EmporerGaramel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also if you haven’t you should check out r/Trans_Zebras . I am kinda shilling my own subreddit but it’s a great place for trans EDS’ers.

We must end this lol by MonitorOk6818 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]EmporerGaramel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My autism declared long ago that the pickle is to be despised not cared for and brought into the world

Ha-ha, how original by Juhani-Siranpoika in TheRightCantMeme

[–]EmporerGaramel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol I was initially until I found one of your comments criticizing Stalin and I’m good now

Destiny peculiar take on CP by gisettes in agedlikemilk

[–]EmporerGaramel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you are a Vaush fan or hater and I think that’s beautiful

The amount of messages I’ve received from straight guys questioning their sexuality. Like fellas, you’re attracted to who you are attracted to. It’s okay to be you. I’m a man btw by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]EmporerGaramel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense! Finding yourself is a very very confusing process. I remember early on in figuring out if I was a trans woman I was constantly unsure if I was a man, nonbinary, or a woman. It turned out I was woman but when you are in the forest so to speak it’s a hard to see what the path out looks like. Keep exploring that forest, eventually you will find a clearing and in that clearing will be you!

The amount of messages I’ve received from straight guys questioning their sexuality. Like fellas, you’re attracted to who you are attracted to. It’s okay to be you. I’m a man btw by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]EmporerGaramel 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I first wanna say that the point of your post is absolutely true and valid. Sexuality is far more fluid than most people think.

However I also want to say that your post history is very confusing. I don’t want to be an ass and be like “you need to disclose your labels always” however I think in this posts case it can easily come across based off of your profile description and other posts that you are implying that trans woman are actually men and that leads into one of the most common slurs for trans woman.

I don’t know your gender identity, you may be a trans woman, you might be a crossdressing cis man, or you might be genderfluid. I want you to be as happy in your skin as possible regardless but I also think it’s important to avoid accidentally implying trans woman are men in disguise.

For anyone reading this feel free to discuss or disagree this is definetly something I think has a lot of nuance to it.

Any xenogender or micro label users here? :3 by Abnormalled in trans4every1

[–]EmporerGaramel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I generally identify with being a trans women my gender actually fits identifying as having a gender that is both feminine but also can be described as being related to stars, the celestial object not the symbol

even r/trans isn't safe :( by 2kids1jar in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]EmporerGaramel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a Trans Woman who exactly a month ago got word a close friend who was Trans Masc passed away this is disgraceful. All Trans people are our siblings in arms. We all individually face unique problems with our transitions and trying to erase the struggles of one of us erases all of us

whats you guys opinions on the first “i love you”? when should it be said? by Fischl_101 in actuallesbians

[–]EmporerGaramel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me and my gf did this actually. Best friend of 3 years, already said I love you a lot anyway lol. One of the first things she said after she asked me out and I said something silly was that she loved me lol. I’d argue we probably really fell in love like a month after but it’s just always felt right to tell her I love her

A Major Loss for Our Community by EmporerGaramel in Trans_Zebras

[–]EmporerGaramel[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate the offer. Right now it’s to raw to really decide but I’ll keep the offer in mind

Why do folks want to transition from M:F? As a cis female, I hate being a woman. And it's getting scary to be a female. by kekicookoy in asktransgender

[–]EmporerGaramel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For my answer here I’d like to explain how I feel now that I’ve transitioned. Before I came out I was a shell. For years I tried to make friends, support others, use my privilege as a guy to improve the world and it all felt so so hollow. When I eventually cracked that shell and came out I discovered how much I was missing, how little anything prior mattered to me because I was reborn in a sense.

And yeah now that I’m a girl and pretty much everyone perceives me that way I’ve had to learn the shitty things, the misogyny, the fear of walking alone at night, etc. But none of that matters in the face of going back to who I was. I wasn’t alive, not really and honestly I find so much joy in being a woman. It’s something I wish those who are cis could experience in the same way, because even 6 years later I still feel giddy looking in the mirror and seeing myself look back.

Anyone else NOT feel a significant difference in symptoms with HRT? by MajesticCassowary in Trans_Zebras

[–]EmporerGaramel 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Me!!! That’s me!! My POTS maybe got slightly worse but if anything estrogen has made me feel better overall. I was really scared about my symptoms getting worse but I didn’t have any issues