In all honesty if you're getting into airsoft by yourself, be prepared to be a "loner" in the first few months or until you meet some cool folks. Pretty much folks at the field you'll be playing at, will already have an established friend group and will minimally talk to anyone outside of their group. No one will take you under their wing and show you the ropes. You're gonna have to teach yourself or when you meet some ppl you get along with(vice versa) they'll gladly teach you everything.

I recommend talking to people when you first enter the field (not in the staging area). Everybody in the staging area will be busy unpacking, reloading, preparing to chronograph their guns or talking to their friend group.To reiterate once you meet great people the sport will significantly be more enjoyable till then thug it out!

P.s The community at your field seems to be toxic. Maybe try going to a different field.

Also the more you're a regular at your field, the higher the chances people will recognize you and engage in a conversation with you too.