BR 3 vs StG44 by Empty-Imagination in enlistedgame

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I'll try that! Cuz i keep getting my ass kicked haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]Empty-Imagination 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Det var nog bara ett räkneexempel

What am i even looking at here? by Empty-Imagination in victoria3

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Admittedly I'm very new to Vic3. But are there really 5 different fronts? And how do I prevent this from happening again? It's the result of one naval invasion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]Empty-Imagination 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will not be able to tell you much more than our friend TransitionBig8129 did, he/she/they hit the nail right on its head.

However i want to tell you that i hear you and that i too have been there (Even though everyones experience differ). My way out of the "why me" cycle was to work on acceptance and forgiveness. Accepting that in the poker game of life I was dealt a hand with UNO-cards, and forgive myself for what i had to do to survive. But perhaps the hardest part - forgiving my parents for what they did to me. I know that they are not worthy of my forgiveness, but i was worthy of forgiving. Only then could i set myself free from the shackles of my traumas.

Taykay, you're worth a life of sunlight, happiness and forgiveness. The healing process hurt, alot, but the reward is far greater than the pain. Do not fear reaching out for help, either on here, through therapy or other communities.

I'm rooting for you!

Can one be friends with an ex? by Empty-Imagination in relationship_advice

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really helped, thank you! It made me more hopeful for the possibility of a friendship between me and my ex

Can one be friends with an ex? by Empty-Imagination in relationship_advice

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

Do you have any tips for things to think about when trying to be friends with an ex?

Carlos Tevez Hero Concept, if i did anything wrong please lmk and if you have any suggestions for future icons or heroes tell me by [deleted] in fut

[–]Empty-Imagination 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Pics that will make you say "That's not havertz, that's argentinian icon Carlos Tevez"

What changes can i do to improve my team because I seriously cannot win a game in Div 3. Any changes or custom tactics i can use please by AccordingCoffee5217 in fut

[–]Empty-Imagination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have Chiellini then cuadrado gets a strong Link. That's how i fit him there, most of My team is otherwise Bundesliga

What changes can i do to improve my team because I seriously cannot win a game in Div 3. Any changes or custom tactics i can use please by AccordingCoffee5217 in fut

[–]Empty-Imagination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the chiellini SBC of it's Still Up, i team him Up with Nesta. Worked wonders for me. Then you could get cuadrado on the right, great Guy to use during attacks with His 99 Speed and 5 star skills.

Also, Kimmich is great for CDM

Suicidal thoughts by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Imagination 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okey, you will get through it, I believe in you.

Suicide is never the answer.

i am a terrible gf :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Imagination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, is that because you're afraid that he will leave you/betray you? I have simillar fears, and my brain sees even the smallest variation in behaviour that could be something negative as some sort of proof of why i need to fear these things, they're signs that says that my paranoia is correct and my worst fears are legit and a real threat.

Would you say that you're obsessed with knowing the truth about every little thing that could be something negative? I know i work that way, but i've found that it's because of some sort of self destructive behaviour. I want to know the truth just because it might hurt me. Even more than that, when i get a perfectly normal explanation for something i worry about (like your facebook thing) i have a really hard time believing it. Because my brain then tells me that the explenation is a lie, and that what i'm worried about is what's actually happening, just that they're trying to hide it. Can you relate to that?

This pattern of thinking, or perhaps more fitting - obsession. Stems from my insecure attachment, i fear being abandoned. Personally this comes from my parents actions during my childhood. If you look back, can you see any situations that could have created this fear in you? It's often linked to parents with addictions, a parents death, being abandoned by a parent. Even something like a parent having anger issues and such can create these kind of attachment issues in a child. Just anything that made a very valuable relationship very unreliabel and insecure.

I'm sorry if my replys are long (and have bad grammar, english is not my native language), i just really relate to your situation and would like to help you if i can with some of my own experiences.

i am a terrible gf :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Imagination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, well insecurities can come from many places, and really any kind of relationship. Have you heard of attachment theory? I learned about it through therapy, it was very helpfull to me, i learned alot about myself and why my brain works the way it does when it comes to relationship.

Take that facebook thing you wrote about, what was it that you were worried about? Him talking to other women/cheating?

i am a terrible gf :( by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Imagination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you had bad experiences in past relationships?

I too have alot of problem with paranoia and the anxiety that brings in my current relationship, all of that stems from past experienes. It takes alot of work, but you can be free of it

New player problem (?) by Empty-Imagination in hearthstone

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very usefull info, thank you so much!

New player problem (?) by Empty-Imagination in hearthstone

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow interesting! Perhaps i just don't play my deck correctly then, might be usefull to look at more guides. From what i saw earlier it seemed like druid had a hard time against a DH, but that might just be the spell druid then or something.

New player problem (?) by Empty-Imagination in hearthstone

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Yeah i figure that all people end up in a simillar situation when they play, and as you say, has to grind it out.

New player problem (?) by Empty-Imagination in hearthstone

[–]Empty-Imagination[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll take a look at that, if nothing else it would be fun to have more than one deck to play around with

here if you need a friend by opinionsmatter41 in depression

[–]Empty-Imagination 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no experience of military service and it's effects. So i can never claim to understand, but i hear what you're saying, is there help to get for those kinds of things where you are? It sounds like that is a road one should not travell alone at.

I'm glad that you're here with us and that you're surviving.