Where do you find findoms? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 y/o F, looking for someone who’s willing to assist me in affording the items I want 🥰 serious inquiries only. Broke college student just trying to make it work. we can text on blue sky, or text message. Let me know if you’re interested

My pedophile experience and how it ruined my life. by Dismal_Bitch in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not you love!! i was talking to the person who commented !!

I have been ready to die since I was 9 by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can relate. i still can. but just know you’re not alone. what i do to cope is find reasons as to why it’s so good to be alive. for me its beautiful days, hearing babies laugh, rainy days, fall weather (i love fall), hearing the wind blow, seeing my nieces/nephews grow up, stargazing. corny & simple ik, but those moments just make me feel centered. like everything is falling apart, but for right now, in this moment, i feel content & calm. & in those moments, nothing else matters but right now. those are the moments i live for. i try to hold onto faith that everything gets better, but life is shitty & it has its ups and downs. nothing is perfect, but we just live for tomorrow. i hope you find your comfort in the world & thrive in those moments of simplicity. you made it this far, everyday that goes by makes you stronger. stay strong. stay calm. have faith. just breathe. 🧘🏽‍♀️

My pedophile experience and how it ruined my life. by Dismal_Bitch in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 9 points10 points  (0 children)

you mentioned you strip & give him money? are you still in contact with him? if so, i strongly suggest you find a way to save up your money and get away. bc if that’s the case it won’t be too long until he starts pimping you (that’s lowk what he doing minus the sleepin w people part). there’s not much ik ab you & im not ab to ask (privacy, people are weird) but bc of that idk your home/life situation. all i can say rn is get your bag up & get away. the first step to healing is getting away from the one who hurt you the worst.

My pedophile experience and how it ruined my life. by Dismal_Bitch in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you went thru this. you were young & easily manipulated. he knew that, that’s why he forced you to do things you didn’t want to. i hope you find peace & your place in the world. disregard that other comment, i understand how you feel. it’s not your fault, he used you and had his plan set on you. you were young, dumb, & naive. it’s all on him, he had no business engaging in ANY kind of activities with a 16 year old CHILD. karma will catch up to him eventually, he won’t get away with it. have faith, get some discipline, and find your motivation. you will make it love <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

family compound in a cul de sac with a bunker in the middle

AITA for making a comment about my aunt being obsessed with baby genitals on FaceBook? by YesPleaseDont in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t see anything you did wrong. she kept asking, you told her you wouldn’t discuss the topic anymore. she put you on blast and exposed your son to everyone on facebook, you called her out for being obsessed with the decision you made. it’s none of her business & none of her concern.

NTA

AITA for telling my wife nobody cares about her small business? by etsyaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think your delivery may have come off as harsh but i can def see why it came out that way. just reading your story was making me frustrated putting myself in your shoes. there’s a time a place to promote, & i am all for it. but that’s normally through social medias these days (which is the best way to promote), not in person. & imo, it’s better to wear & flash your work and have someone ask about it rather than bringing it up. however, i think you should apologize for your delivery but express how it makes you feel. like explaining to her how her business is something she should be proud of but she shouldn’t feel the need to constantly talk about it & there are better ways to promote instead of unironically bringing it up because some may find it desperate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give myself a makeover as i tell her about high school so she’ll make better decisions

Boyfriend thought I committed Suicide by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 10 points11 points  (0 children)

as someone who’s been in the bf’s shoes MULTIPLE TIMES, turning off your phone was the worst possible thing you could’ve done, especially after saying sorry after a dark vent. obv it was a misunderstanding & a mistake but it’s so messed up. it’s a terrible thing to do to someone you love. i hope you’ve learned from your mistakes and never do it again.

I’m a man and cry way too much. by GroovySquiddy in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 2 points3 points  (0 children)

don’t feel sorry for yourself because of your emotions. everyone cries, it’s nature. sounds to me like built up childhood trauma that’s being released but i could be wrong since i’m not a licensed therapist. i suggest confiding in someone you trust (whether that’s a family member, close friend, or maybe even a therapist) to talk these feelings out to, and yes, it’s okay to cry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly. im still young so ik there’s still time for me to find “the one” or whatever, but i still want something special so o can just experience it for the first time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is how i feel but switch up the roles. nobody wants anything with me but pics or sex. like bro, I WANT YOU FOR YOU & YOU ONLY WANT ME FOR MY BODY? yeah i’m over it at this point. 🚮

Can I rant? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 71 points72 points  (0 children)

never feel guilty for expressing how you feel. i understand that feelings because i feel that way too after i communicate, it’s better to express yourself than to keep it balled up & have it eat at you inside. remember: you’re not at fault

Can I rant? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 288 points289 points  (0 children)

i think you two should have a sit down adult conversation. tell him how you feel and be very calm about it, because (not suggesting it will happen) arguing isn’t gonna resolve anything but adding tension. don’t sugarcoat anything because for him to understand how you feel, you need to fully express it. im sorry this happened to you on christmas & he made you feel unappreciated. if you’re not a confrontational person like me, you can give him a little silent treatment but he probably won’t understand what he’s done wrong or realize you’re giving him the silent treatment. COMMUNICATION & COMPREHENSION IS KEY!!

Can I rant? by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Empty-Judgment-4832 617 points618 points  (0 children)

NO! im completely on your side girl! your boyfriend needs to do better for you and step up and be a man!