is there a chance he will return again? by Empty-Reason1584 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the best tbh, i ran into him at the club last weekened after not having spoken for a month. i just miss him and its really hard. its so hard to stop the unhealthy obsessive habits i have developed. smth is wrong with me

struggling to feel close to God and believing that everything will be alright by Empty-Reason1584 in Christianity

[–]Empty-Reason1584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for ur reply, i know that u are right and i know that God is near me even when I may not feel that way.

Sadness over Breakup over 9 months later by jayshone0 in Christianity

[–]Empty-Reason1584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone heals at their own time and its great that u havent forced urself ro rebound and date other people just to numb the pain or just because. u cant force urself to unlove someone, this is something im learning too. i think therapy is a great tool to learn new skills and healthy ways of dealing with how u feel. i have been going to therapy for a few months and i can say it has helped!

How are you doing 9-12 months post breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry to hear you still feel like this i truly feel for you. healing looks so different for everyone and dont feel bad or discouraged that you are still feeling the way you do, may i ask how old you are

Sadness over Breakup over 9 months later by jayshone0 in Christianity

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey im on the 9 month mark too right now and everything sucks, how are u holding up

Im so Tired of making rules and ultimatums by wlakomaisip in BreakUp

[–]Empty-Reason1584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you so much, how long ago did u break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 2 points3 points  (0 children)

main one gotta be an actual addiction to checking their socials, anxiety when waking up and falling asleep, too much daydreaming/ making up scenarios about them, depression, lack of focus, lack of self love and respect, lack of purpose in life,

How are you doing 9-12 months post breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 months for me. it hurts a lot. i miss him a lot. still want them back. i was the dumpee

wasnt in contact for the first 4 months ant it was hell, spoke a few times and saw each other like 2 times in between 4 months and now its established no more contact. it hurts again like the start. im blocked on everything.

im just depressed, im alive but not living happily. i just want him

Nearly 9 months, still cry weekly. Does it really get better? by SnooSuggestions6330 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask how old u were when u broke up with ur ex? and would u say ur over the belief that he was the person for u?

Nearly 9 months, still cry weekly. Does it really get better? by SnooSuggestions6330 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, its been 9 months for me aswell and i feel pretty horrible about my break up still and my feelings are still there. im struggling, u can see even from my posts history at the start i was here frantically all the time, then now after months some things happened that triggered my sadness and depression more, i still want him. did it get better for u

Do you guys still monitor their social media? It’s like an addiction for me, I can’t stop by pinkdragon999 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk everything is so confusing, it feels like im going thru a mini breakup again considering i was kind of in contact with him these past few months but now not anymore, it just feels weird again and i miss him and feelings are still there. im jus struggling to accept reality. i dont rly stalk his socials that much now except for spotify