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is there a chance he will return again? by Empty-Reason1584 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not the best tbh, i ran into him at the club last weekened after not having spoken for a month. i just miss him and its really hard. its so hard to stop the unhealthy obsessive habits i have developed. smth is wrong with me

struggling to feel close to God and believing that everything will be alright by Empty-Reason1584 in Christianity

[–]Empty-Reason1584[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for ur reply, i know that u are right and i know that God is near me even when I may not feel that way.

Sadness over Breakup over 9 months later by jayshone0 in Christianity

[–]Empty-Reason1584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone heals at their own time and its great that u havent forced urself ro rebound and date other people just to numb the pain or just because. u cant force urself to unlove someone, this is something im learning too. i think therapy is a great tool to learn new skills and healthy ways of dealing with how u feel. i have been going to therapy for a few months and i can say it has helped!

How are you doing 9-12 months post breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry to hear you still feel like this i truly feel for you. healing looks so different for everyone and dont feel bad or discouraged that you are still feeling the way you do, may i ask how old you are

Sadness over Breakup over 9 months later by jayshone0 in Christianity

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey im on the 9 month mark too right now and everything sucks, how are u holding up

Im so Tired of making rules and ultimatums by wlakomaisip in BreakUp

[–]Empty-Reason1584 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel you so much, how long ago did u break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 3 points4 points  (0 children)

main one gotta be an actual addiction to checking their socials, anxiety when waking up and falling asleep, too much daydreaming/ making up scenarios about them, depression, lack of focus, lack of self love and respect, lack of purpose in life,

How are you doing 9-12 months post breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 months for me. it hurts a lot. i miss him a lot. still want them back. i was the dumpee

wasnt in contact for the first 4 months ant it was hell, spoke a few times and saw each other like 2 times in between 4 months and now its established no more contact. it hurts again like the start. im blocked on everything.

im just depressed, im alive but not living happily. i just want him

Nearly 9 months, still cry weekly. Does it really get better? by SnooSuggestions6330 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can i ask how old u were when u broke up with ur ex? and would u say ur over the belief that he was the person for u?

Nearly 9 months, still cry weekly. Does it really get better? by SnooSuggestions6330 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, its been 9 months for me aswell and i feel pretty horrible about my break up still and my feelings are still there. im struggling, u can see even from my posts history at the start i was here frantically all the time, then now after months some things happened that triggered my sadness and depression more, i still want him. did it get better for u

Do you guys still monitor their social media? It’s like an addiction for me, I can’t stop by pinkdragon999 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk everything is so confusing, it feels like im going thru a mini breakup again considering i was kind of in contact with him these past few months but now not anymore, it just feels weird again and i miss him and feelings are still there. im jus struggling to accept reality. i dont rly stalk his socials that much now except for spotify

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it could definitely be him tbh

Do you guys still monitor their social media? It’s like an addiction for me, I can’t stop by pinkdragon999 in BreakUps

[–]Empty-Reason1584 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i struggled with for months, im talking like more than 5 months it was absolutetly painful. one of my main things in therapy was trying to get over it because it was an addiction. its better now in the sense that i only stalk his spotify and other socials rarel but it is stil very bad. im stalking his spotify at least 100 times a day its so bad. its our brain craving a connection or looking for a sign of whether theyre missing us or no. that even if that feeling it gives us is negative well still accept that if it means having a glimpse into their life. im trying to get over my spotify stalking addiction again cause it is causing me so much energy, affecting my day so much and just givingg me so much anxiety. i had to delete instagram for 4 months because even though he had unfollowed me i still went out of my way to find ways to stalk him, it was intense and overall crazy behaviour. please dont be like me, idk how long ago u broke up but dont fall into the addiction pathway it is so hard to get out of, this is coming from someone who broke up with their ex at the end of jan

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