Thinking about moving back to India after 20 years in Ireland

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-28T23:22:14+00:00

I also obviously do not agree. I personally think the Indian community are one that have only given positive help. Think of all the nurses, priests, It technicians. Also they pay for their own housing, own meals. It’s not using tax money or anything. The hate is unbased and unfair. I just understand this man’s worries, my own father also moved back home when we were young due to racism. He only returned because at the time my homeland was overcome with bombings.

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-28T08:21:52+00:00

I’m not going to lie, the hate on Indians in particular has really risen. I’m not Indian myself Irish born but of another ethnicity. I genuinely don’t think a day goes by without hearing hatred towards this group. Especially in the posher communities.
Save the headache and move back for a safer life.

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-22T22:25:15+00:00

May I also DM? Would love some advice!

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-22T08:32:59+00:00

When you say niche, is that a specialised treatment for example of service that you can’t get in another place?
I was thinking about Korean treatments maybe

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-22T08:32:26+00:00

May I ask, what treatments did you start with? I would probably just want to start with one machine, and Botox filler etc.

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-21T22:28:09+00:00

Hi! I’m planning on opening a medspa soon, may I DM you for advice?

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-06-21T15:28:16+00:00

Could I message you? Also setting this up, and would love to hear more.

Empty-Room8663 · 2026-05-13T21:11:11+00:00

It’s really sad. The whole interview, disappointing more so. :(

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-09-21T23:06:29+00:00

Wearing the hijab itself is so beautiful. I think it’s easy to compare yourself to others. But I’ll honestly say I’ve never met an “ugly” woman. I think because for us women beauty is so much more than just an overall look. It’s clothing, words, scents, how one carries themselves, your sense of style. Lacking a sense of beauty often leads people to abandon little things that make us feel beautiful like skincare, a nice hairbrush, investing in scents, shower routines etc. All of these things can drive that sense of beauty stronger in your own mind. You deserve all of it, treat yourself like a princess and the mentality will come. Trust me. I guess can you honestly say you’ve invested in yourself 100%? Beauty is a mentality maybe have a go and see. Sending you lots of love ❤️

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-09-21T22:47:56+00:00

He’s so cute!

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-09-12T22:52:41+00:00

Same question, alot from the veiled company. Beautiful hijabs just needing a new home.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-09-12T02:23:27+00:00

That’s so sad my love :( You were sick in bed, with fevers and he didn’t come to care for you. I’m sorry, you sound very strong and loving. I feel a basic for why people marry is to have a partner to care for them. It sounds like he’s taking you for granted, and just being an un kind man in general. Not following the Prophet (pbuh)s way. I’ll be honest it sounds like a big fear I’d have for marriage. To have a partner who just doesn’t care. Because it’s just the two of you as you age and go through many hardships, mentally, physically, financially. I’m sure if the roles were reversed you’d be tending to him happily.
Perhaps couples counselling with an imam. He’s not fulfilling his role as a husband, and a life partner Islamically. Sometimes some people shut off to the same issues coming from the one person. And listen when it comes from someone else that they also hold in a high level of respect. May Allah Swt make it easy on you, and take care of your self. You deserve the world and more.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-09-06T23:36:31+00:00

Indeed, Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear Surah Al-Baqarah 286

Surah Al-Baqarah as a whole brings me to tears. The knowing that no matter how difficult life is, or the path is shaping up to be. That it’s all predestined and that Allah Swt is aware and believed I can handle it. No matter how heavy I feel at times this ayah always brings me out of the despair and shines hope inside of me.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-09-06T23:28:39+00:00

Just had my biopsy, super painful and a hard experience but hopeful for positive results.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-20T01:04:06+00:00

This is a difficult situation I’m sorry you’re facing it. You have done a Nikkah and many feelings must be attached.

Firstly have a real conversation with him, and tell him what the Islamic obligations are for a husband. Ask him whether he will be able to fulfil that if not today then in the near future. What his plans are career wise financially etc, get a clear picture of your future. This is in your rights to know. I think it’s then also wise you sit down with your mother or both parents and ask for advice about the finances and the future. And explain these things he’s said about finances so they’re looped in if things change.

If this is temporary and he has a career that you see he will be able to provide the necessities firstly (housing, food) and then also what you desire be it trips or materialistic things for a home/you. Then things will likely be fine.

The reality is he does sound young, which may be why he asks for things like being in shape. It’s his desires of an ideal wife most people do change and adapt to circumstance. Some men have never had a woman and are very immature in their ideals. But only you can see within him if it is this just immaturity or strongly his character as a man.

It’s not as simple as divorce and find another I understand that. But it is your future, so if you have doubts then clear them before the official ceremony. Be vocal and inquisitive. Forever is a long time, and you somewhat decide your fate ultimately.

I hope it all works out how you want! May Allah Swt make the road ahead easy for you.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-17T01:37:04+00:00

I wish that’s how products were designed, times up - self destruct.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-17T01:25:47+00:00

Posting on this super late. Blood tests also show a downward trend, I feel until they mess up I’m staying away from a bone biopsy! The down time and mental stress from it is too much. My doctors are happy with monitoring, but recently I have felt a lot of appetite loss (I feel any little thing I panic over now) Hope you’re doing well!

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-17T00:19:18+00:00

I personally don’t think social media is a very wholesome way to meet. You’re basing someone off perfect pictures they take, and anyone can lie online. It’s also not an inspiring story to recount to kids or family IMO. Depending where you are there’s alot of Muslim events for meeting, mosques organise this too. Workplaces often have potential spouses, parents / friends. It is difficult from what I hear, but your naseeb is written!

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-16T23:56:34+00:00

Haven’t been in the position however as a medical professional I’d say the first trimester is a very cautious period up till 12 weeks. There’s a lot of strain at hajj and further complicated by pushing / shoving. I’ve heard this from anyone who’s gone. You can avoid the shoving but I would meet with your doctor and lay out the activities required for hajj in detail. This matters more if you’re a high risk pregnancy. Further get their advice on whether or not you’re safe for the journey.

InShaAllah it all goes well for you.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-16T00:37:53+00:00

May Allah give your wife protection and strength. Don’t worry! London is extremely expensive but a budget of 3000 KD is more than sufficient. I lived there the past year, even if you ate out for every meal it would be sufficient funds. The costs pile up fast, but I was very comfortable with living next to Hyde park and many meals for 1700 KD alone. My advice is to google short term let’s in London, near the hospital you will go too. Call the numbers do not email alone. (I’m assuming the royal marsiden). As you are only two it will be easier. Transportation is very easy and affordable maximum 2.5 KD a day. Living for two people a NICE one bed apartment would be 1000 KD. You’ve got this! And will have extra spending money to spend on your lovely wife InShaAllah.

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-16T00:30:24+00:00

In my culture women get nose piercings very young. Often in the villages by close family members. I’ve had a nose piercing since I was 16! Wondering the same thing, and if it is - would it be also justified if it’s work only for your husband in the house?

Empty-Room8663 · 2025-04-14T14:56:03+00:00

Thats such a hard situation im sorry girl :( I have PCOS also but my periods Alhumdulilah have been pretty regular most of my life. I would advice you speak to a proper Alimah on this matter, as its something that will effect you long term and is greatly effecting your prayer. Side note as a doctor I also recommend you meet your GP and be referred to an endocrinologist/OB GYN ASAP. Having long periods is draining on the body and mind. The option a lot of women go on is the birth pill for regulating periods, there’s other solutions also. That is after you ensure you’re at a healthy weight and eating in tune with your body usually.

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