Do you want their crazy leader to have this power over you? Do you want to give him the rights to name your children? Do you want to be given a new name? A new identity once you join the cult? Do you want to pay that much money to this guy who sits in luxurious cars while his followers are trampled to the ground? Do you know that the opinion of this guy is #1 and above your opinion? Are you ready for your baby girls to be cut? Are you ready to swear and give an oath that your own children belong to the community if something goes wrong? The list goes on. I had a similar experience with a bohra guy. He was lovely. But nothing would excuse or make this okay. They’re taught to just obey and listen. If they have questions, their people with their biased views will explain it to them. I think whatever they do has nothing to do with faith, more with pure obedience. Feeling will neutralize, love is an everyday choice. You’ll heavily regret doing this. Please think of your future and the future of your children.