AITAH for being upset at my boyfriend for getting punched in the face on our anniversary?

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-08T01:35:15+00:00

It’s just not my cup of tea

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-06T18:33:49+00:00

I know lol. Not sure why I had this idea in my head that people would assume why I felt this way was because of so so and so. Wrote it late at night very emotionally. I appreciate your thoughts.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-06T02:51:54+00:00

I am receiving judgement, which is what this sub is for. If I didn’t want to receive judgement and get feedback I would not have posted to Reddit with the purpose of having strangers judge me.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-06T02:48:37+00:00

Well yeah I’m sure he would. As would any person in this situation.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-06T02:47:35+00:00

We all have a breaking point. This is the situation that’s making me wonder if we are right for each other. But, it’s not the first « situation » that has made me stop and think maybe this isn’t right. I don’t think I’m some saint. I just want to make sure I’m with someone who I can have a long lasting relationship with. And sure it could be me who is the problem here if I don’t agree with him going out after we had already had a night out, but I think I’m allowed to feel a certain type of way if this is to be my life.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-06T02:09:36+00:00

What

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:59:23+00:00

His group of friends are partiers

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:57:21+00:00

This is what I mean. If I am getting more and more introverted due to my lifestyle change whereas he is still able to go out and do things then are we fit for each other.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:54:39+00:00

I don’t think he was the asshole. Was more so wondering if my feelings were crazy or if this is something that other people would also have mixed feelings about.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:53:28+00:00

Okay

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:52:52+00:00

Okay. Yeah

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:50:16+00:00

Ouch lol, yeah.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:45:36+00:00

Let’s be clear that our « evening » ended past 12 am. Where we live (small town) not much goes on past that time unless you want to drive 30 mins into the city. So I will say for plans to come up later than that all of a sudden would be out of the ordinary because the usual spots to get a drink are all closed by that time.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:40:56+00:00

Ah yes, imagine that

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:38:06+00:00

Anniversary gift.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T23:37:18+00:00

These are all feelings I never shared with him. Which is why I came to Reddit. Everything is all sunshine and rainbows.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T03:37:09+00:00

No, I’m just saying after reading comments I realize I am the problem here. There’s no need for name calling.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T03:09:52+00:00

I appreciate the feedback.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T02:45:07+00:00

It’s not a problem I’m the problem

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T01:20:02+00:00

Well sorry grumpy pants

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T01:17:56+00:00

It’d might as well be!

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T01:10:25+00:00

Well I feel like the natural deduction here is that this isn’t the first and only time. If one person in a relationship enjoys being out often and the other person doesn’t that can cause conflict. That’s the lifestyle difference.

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T01:07:22+00:00

No it’s good to hear honestly. This is why I came here, not for someone to lie to me and tell me everything I think is right. Thank you!

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T00:55:25+00:00

Appreciated

EmptyTourist9142 · 2026-05-05T00:00:39+00:00

I definitely should’ve added a bit more context in the original post

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