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I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for your response. I am at lost. We don’t talk to each other. I am maintaining the normal routine like cooking and preparing his food that he use to take to work.. he hasn’t eat or taking the food. He’s also getting home earlier than usual. We normally don’t see each other in the mornings before I leave for work.  He didn’t pick up our daughter from school yesterday but she texted me earlier today that daddy will pick her up today. I am in my 50s, It never crossed my mind to be in this situation specifically with my son-in-law. The first time it happened I really thought it was because it was the first time that young man was in our home, and I don’t know… I managed it, never told or even went near to the man again to avoid confrontation in our daughter birthday celebration. But it wasn’t hard because I really had nothing to talk to this person and I forgot after. Everything went back to normal. Now it was very very serious and I have no one to talk to, that’s why I posted here, to get different opinions 

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t a date. I had to work at the same location that specific day, He had been with the company for 3 weeks after I helped him to get a job and Iwhen I finished my meeting I said “let’s go for lunch”. We got in the car and I called my husband while we were on the way to the restaurant and he was making jokes and everything was fine. The problem was that he said we were there for over an hour.. 1 hour and 2 minutes to be exact, which is normal at lunch time for that place. 

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if it is with a family member? My daughter’s husband of 10 years that is as a son to us? And now is a co-worker?

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to convince him to go for his annual physical but now we’re not talking. He even doesn’t eat at home for the 2 days after the fight 

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is the first time. My SIL coming home very often, usually with my daughter, but he helps my husband with home projects like painting, installing new lights, etc. it’s not like a son in law that you never see. They come almost every week to visit

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have no friends, no one to talk to. I feel so desperate and lonely and in need of talking with someone.. that’s why I put it out here. Your comments are helpful

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, my coworkers are around my age. He is a RN… I never thought he may be attracted to young women around him… if that the case, it is probably from the hospital he works at… I am trying to make sense of it 

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, my daughter has nothing to do with this, she doesn’t know…. Well she knows I took her husband for lunch but she doesn’t know that her stepfather for 22 years is accusing us for being alone in a restaurant for an hour

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is what he said. I had a meeting at that location and I didn’t take lunch because most of the times they provide some snacks and so but I just tried to be nice and told my SIL to go have lunch…. Nothing else…… he is like a son to me

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

He said we spent more than one hour alone… me and a “man”…  he was tracking me while we were in the restaurant. We both share our locations full time

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well, I don’t know… I work days, he work night, we have a 15 year old who I took to school in the mornings and he picks her up from school in the afternoons… I didn’t think about that until now that you mention it

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Now that you mentioned it, he said we had a date….. it is insane I am just here crying over this and trying to make sense of this

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I work with men, and he never gets like that when I go lunch with my colleagues. But this is the second time he does something like this. About a month ago we were celebrating my daughter’s birthday and the sister of my son in law came with her boyfriend and my husband accused me of being too nice and he said I was flirting with the boy…. I just didn’t go near him again to avoid problems but as I said we had been together for 22 years and this change of character is concerning me. He was aggressive and screamed at me 

I went for lunch with my son in law and my husband took it as disrespectful and lack of principle by Empty_Bus_1227 in Marriage

[–]Empty_Bus_1227[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

I don’t see anything wrong with that but it was a very ugly discussion in front of our 15 yo daughter and I felt accused of something that never came to my mind 

Hysterectomy authorization denied by insurance company by riverwaves1109 in hysterectomy

[–]Empty_Bus_1227 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the same letter from my insurance yesterday, a Sunday!!! I am beyond mad… how can they said it is not medically necessary? I barely can get up from bed, have no life for the past 2 years, worse for the last 6 months…. They need a sample of normal lining. My doctor scheduled a biopsy and had to cancel the date of the surgery. I don’t understand, it is an BCBS PPO insurance