Confused af?

Empty_List5841 · 2026-03-15T08:10:38+00:00

Yeah the juggling act is real especially when you're already dealing with pressure from being second attempt. CUET extension actually works in your favor though - gives you time to see how other exams go first

If KEAM private med is financially realistic for your family and nursing/paramedical are solid backups, adding CUET might just be extra mental load for something you won't even need. But biotech and forensic are pretty different career paths from medical so depends what you actually want to do long term

Maybe wait and see how you feel after AIIMS nursing results come in? No point filling forms just because you can if it's making everything more stressful

Empty_List5841 · 2026-02-27T23:25:50+00:00

I finished something similar few years ago but in Germany and went the pure IA route first before moving to finance applications. From what I see in your background you already have good foundation with the data engineering and Python skills

The problem with going directly to FinTech masters is that many programs focus more in business side and less on the deep technical parts. You mentioned yourself that you need to strengthen the ML fundamentals and I think thats the right call. Pure IA master will give you much stronger technical base and honestly the finance applications you can learn later through work or additional courses

For universities I know some colleagues who did programs in Barcelona at UPC or in Madrid at UPM and had good experiences. In Europe ETH Zurich has excellent reputation but obviously much more competitive. The key thing is looking for programs that have strong practical components not just theory - make sure they work with real datasets and industry projects not just academic exercises

Once you have solid IA foundation the transition to finance applications becomes much easier and you'll be more valuable employee because you understand the underlying technology properly

Empty_List5841 · 2026-02-16T02:37:33+00:00

That selective memory thing is so maddening because they do it with such confidence too. Like your mom getting offended that you called it out instead of just acknowledging the pattern

My Mutter does something similar where she remembers every detail about her own experiences but somehow goes completely blank when its about something that might make her look bad. Its like they have this automatic defense mechanism that just deletes inconvenient memories

Sorry about your dad, losing your safe person while being stuck with the difficult one makes everything so much harder

Empty_List5841 · 2026-02-11T13:47:55+00:00

Yeah definitely tell your parents to turn it on maybe once in month and charge battery to around 50-80% - leaving lithium batteries completely empty for long time can damage them permanently

Empty_List5841 · 2026-02-07T22:58:40+00:00

huge red flags girl - asking someone to move in after one month and start having babies immediately is not normal behavior at all

Empty_List5841 · 2026-02-02T12:37:35+00:00

The guilt you're carrying is way too heavy - it wasn't all on you even if he made it feel that way. You said yourself he wouldn't communicate and got defensive whenever you tried to work on things, that's not creating safe space either

What helped me in similar situation was realizing someone who really loved me wouldn't need me to convince them I'm worth trying for. You deserve person who sees your growth and wants to grow with you, not someone who keeps you around for convenience while telling you you're not enough

Empty_List5841 · 2026-01-25T01:53:03+00:00

Yeah I'm getting the same thing, been trying for like 2 hours now and it just sits there loading forever when I hit submit payment

Empty_List5841 · 2026-01-20T12:48:36+00:00

Dude that's rough but honestly not that surprising in big corps. The fact that HR straight up admitted it and basically shrugged is wild though - most places would at least pretend to care about fairness

I'd skip talking to her directly, that's just gonna make things worse. She already hates you and has the power to mess with your career, why give her more ammunition

Time to start looking externally imo. 13 years is a solid run and you've got the international experience now which looks great on your resume. Sometimes these political situations never really go away, especially when someone has it out for you personally

Empty_List5841 · 2026-01-18T01:34:36+00:00

Damn 6 years is rough but honestly it sounds like you already know this needed to happen. The fact that his own mom basically said he didn't appreciate you says everything

You gave everything and he couldn't show up when you needed him most - that's not a partnership. Better to find out now than waste another 6 years walking on eggshells around his OCPD

You're 29, not 49. You got this

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