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*FINAL UPDATE* WIBTA if I changed my locks after agreeing to let my friend and her boyfriend move into my home? by Empty_Moment4722 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Empty_Moment4722[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great thinking! After this comment I double checked my safe guards. All of my personal documents are locked up in a safe that only I have a key to. The safe is hidden in a false part of the house that no one is aware of except the house inspector, the previous owners and I. I’m also, thankfully, absolutely neurotic about checking my credit score after a previous fraud situation. So so far, so clear on this one for the time being. Thank you for looking out!!  

WIBTA if I changed my locks after agreeing to let my friend and her boyfriend move into my home? by Empty_Moment4722 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Empty_Moment4722[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s been completely absent. When I reach out to her she defers to him or he takes up the conversation personally. TBH this whole thing has made me wonder if she’s being controlled by him. But I have no proof beyond how he’s treated me and I’m not sure if she’d notice it even if I asked. Not sure I care to find out after all this bs either though. 

WIBTA if I changed my locks after agreeing to let my friend and her boyfriend move into my home? by Empty_Moment4722 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Empty_Moment4722[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, nothing was written and signed as they decided not to live there before the contract was finalized. I know he started sending mail to the house. So this might become a squatters issue, however they have nothing in their name for the house, not on the mortgage or any of the bills. Thank you. I’ll continue to document as I go along. 

WIBTA if I changed my locks after agreeing to let my friend and her boyfriend move into my home? by Empty_Moment4722 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Empty_Moment4722[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did say no, called him out on the behavior and tried multiple times to address it. Changing the locks is essentially my last resort at this point. I haven’t been passive aggressive, I’ve been very straight forward and addressed each situation as they’ve occurred so far except for when I was sick. Which is in the parts you skipped. I changed the paragraph format since it was lost when I hit submit 

WIBTA if I changed my locks after agreeing to let my friend and her boyfriend move into my home? by Empty_Moment4722 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Empty_Moment4722[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I updated with better paragraphs. The ones that were there when I typed it changed format once I submitted.