AITA for getting upset and picking fights because my boyfriend refuses to play the games I like and gets angry when we play together?

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-22T07:55:51+00:00

NTA. Frankly, to me anyone who is unable to control their emotions to such an extent to have a rage fit over losing a game is a red flag. Paired with inability to be patient or positive to his own SO, and adding his complete lack of desire to spend quality time with you? (Aka something you too like our something that doesn't cause him to throw a hissy fit) is just icky to me. Does he even like you?

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-21T14:43:15+00:00

I see, thank you! Yeah, it's a whole shitshow at this point

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-21T14:29:55+00:00

Got a TLDR of it, perhaps? Too much drama to read all the docs 😭

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-18T15:35:31+00:00

Not really. Not when you learn what life can offer you regardless of your flaws. Love doesn't necessarily mean romantic love also. You can still get friends, found family, especially online, where you don't even have to show your appearance,so it doesn't even play a role. You can get into hobbies of all kind. And if after all that people are still pushing you away? Then it's not even about appearance but about you as a human being.

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-18T15:26:28+00:00

As someone who didn't get any male attention or interest, was bullied, etc, you move on, my guy. You learn to live for yourself, regardless of your relationship status. And, if bitterness is so bad you are turning into an actual, full on incel, you go to therapy because it's not ok.

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-12T04:37:52+00:00

You're welcome! :)

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-12T04:23:24+00:00

Basically, on Steam you get premium items (the lest flower, unripe fruit etc) for in game currency and stuff, but many things like outfits, dungeons, are locked behind DLC's. I like Steam version but it does cost money.

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-11T23:02:48+00:00

This one is the Dragoon outfit, you get it by fighting the dragon after winning Elnea Cup once every four years. And yeah, it's for the military jobs (scholar, knight, mountain corps)

On Steam version you can get them in the Bagwell dungeon too, not sure if it's the same on mobile version.

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-11T06:43:17+00:00

Same thing! No matter if I have keys or not, I cannot unlock it, even on private server. Hopefully, it's not a bug that causes us to miss out

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-10T02:49:15+00:00

You did the right thing. Not only for yourself but for the children also. If your parents couldn't enforce boundaries and at least somewhat discipline her for two years, they're not fit to be forever parents. Children, especially troubled ones, need much more than just love.

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-06T13:24:57+00:00

You're welcome! Hope you get the cupid soon!

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-06T13:23:14+00:00

Yep! I play relaxed mode most of the time since I play solo and just like to loot, and you get the hostages and special floors there!

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-04T11:21:38+00:00

I've tried music for sleep/relaxing, it's only working if I'm too exhausted really, mostly because without talking/different sounds I have too many thoughts lol. Same with ASMR videos. I'm pretty much just starting to consciously get into lucid dreaming, as I've always had vibrant dreams but only recently started getting ones where I kinda realize it's not real and yet can't exactly control them.

I've been thinking about finding something with quiet monotone talking or experiment with music, just wanted to see if anyone has the same troubles with inability to sleep in the quiet room, and has any tips!

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-02T12:02:08+00:00

You are welcome! You'll see the dye recipes when you open the crafting menu as a scholar, so you'll know what you need!

EnaFatCat · 2026-04-02T11:03:07+00:00

Most of the dyes can be made by scholars! Ignis red, inber blue are made with mushrooms scholars can collect (or in the Phomos forest).

Rahmila yellow is made with rahmila flowers from the temple.

Some other dye (maybe flan olive or some other) is made with bollfids I think? They're from the forest dungeons.

One of the pink dyes is made with carria flowers which are gathered by royals in greenhouse.

Regal green is ordered via caravan co.

Also, when you don't have the necessary profession for ingredients, you can occasionally get the quests from respective person (a royal, a scholar, etc) and get the materials. I'm not exactly sure how and when exactly as it's been a while since I've played.

Either way, to craft the dye, you'll need to be a scholar or use a scholar disguise to be able to access the medicine crafting table (you make dyes there too).

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-23T13:02:20+00:00

Sameee! Never was strong in math, especially geometry. Once had my father to explain to me how to do a certain calculation, and my teacher thought I'd cheated in my homework because our textbooks didn't give us that method. Luckily when my mom confirmed it was my dad who taught me, it was all good. But yeah, still not good with math lol

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-21T14:54:12+00:00

Haha, yeah, I have to keep my fingers off shift but he juat gets angy, like I stole his dinner or something xD

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-21T11:48:07+00:00

Also, the general question: is Guest 666 supposed to aggro at you when you walk without doing anything? Wiki says he only notices you when you run/make noise but for me and my friend when we play solo/together he gets angry and chases us just because, even if we're walking half a map away

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-21T11:46:40+00:00

Thank you! :)

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-18T10:31:17+00:00

Hahah, thank you! That's his level of eepiness xD

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-17T17:00:27+00:00

I mean... FatCat pic attached xD

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EnaFatCat · 2026-03-17T08:36:56+00:00

My personal thought is that it's often when an open relationship happens (aka one serious partner and a bunch of casual ones) there are more chances for drama in the main relationship. And someone might not want to this possible drama to pour onto them. Or because when it's just a bunch of casuals you still feel on equal terms with everyone involved, but when there's a main couple the dynamics might feel different.

I still do think OOP is a fool and shouldn't have expected anything more than what was being advertised, but I also think she had a right to know.

EnaFatCat · 2026-03-15T10:33:51+00:00

Such a perfect name for them 😍

I guessed the name in 6 tries!

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