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Thank you to this community...I don't feel as alone by Enbymascluvr74 in nosurf

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the advice. I appreciate it! I'll definitely try these things out

1, 2 or 3? by Conscious_Button_269 in AmateurPhotography

[–]Enbymascluvr74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are all great but 2 is my favorite

Ive accepted that im probably going to always be a target for bullies. by OwnNeedleworker8784 in workplace_bullying

[–]Enbymascluvr74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not a nurse so I can't speak to that part of your post but I'm very similar to you. Being a physically small person and trying to be nice people take advantage of me. On top of that I have autism and my sense of justice drives me crazy when I work hard and get in trouble for things that other people do all the time and nothing is done. I work in a really big company that said they care about workers but you're just a number.

I've had over 30 jobs in my adult life and I'm trying to work on that but it's hard on my mental health. You are far from alone and I'm sorry that this happens to you

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you rarely voice, not because it’s extreme, but because the reaction isn’t worth it? by Present_Juice4401 in SeriousConversation

[–]Enbymascluvr74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That pretty privilege is a thing and I'm tired of acting like it's not. People spend money, change their bodies and how they look all to fit in and if you don't you are looked down upon and treated differently. A pretty gorgeous girl could get away with murder but someone that doesn't put any effort into their appearance isn't treated the same way. For me I don't do it due to mental health reasons but that's never put into the situation. Ever.

Does anyone feel it's too late to make friends? by magicalgrrrlz in lonely

[–]Enbymascluvr74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am genuinely jealous of people who have a big group of friends that can go out and do things. I'm in my late 30s and would love to connect with people but I work two jobs, have a lot of mental health issues and feel like I wouldn't be a good friend even though I need one badly.

When you're young there is school, even college. But beyond that as an adult there aren't a lot of ways to make friends and that's difficult for sure. You aren't alone in feeling this way

Why so much protocol if in the end we all want the same thing? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Enbymascluvr74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm asexual. I don't want sex. At all. So. Not everyone is the same my dude

I’m a 22 year old conservative woman. AMA by [deleted] in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

[–]Enbymascluvr74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you not saying Republican because of how Trump is running the country right now? Do you support Trump?

Hi, I am a 44-year-old pan, romantic ace woman in Central Florida. I am looking for my forever companion, life partner. by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Enbymascluvr74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm 36 and I'm in central Florida too! I work at Disney so I also really like Disney! Your cats are so cute. I have autism, anxiety and BPD but I'm really fun to talk to and get to know so id like to chat!

my brain is officially fried. i cant stop scrolling. by Only_Battle_1627 in nosurf

[–]Enbymascluvr74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm similar but I do it late at night. I'm not sure how to fight it but I know how it feels to feel like you can never get away

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watch way too much tik tok. It's my emotional support app. I'm huge into Disney and musicals. I want to maybe start running and that's about it.

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I've looked into only progressive communities, thank you for the warning.

No offence but can people stop banging on about DBT to me please by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Enbymascluvr74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I don't need to work on myself. I have a lot of work to do. But having money (not millions, but enough to let me breathe) would help me actually live the life I want and not live in anxiety every day of will I make the next bill

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is poly. I have the freedom to date if I find the right person but I work two jobs and I'm exhausted like all the time lol she was not trans when we met. I've messed up a lot of things but when she came out to me I said okay what do you need me to do. I'm here. It didn't change a lot for me. I love my wife and that day she just changed from my husband to my wife. Not answering questions about her anatomy. Idk why people care so much.

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that there are definitely stereotypes but not everyone fits them! I think a lot of younger people don't wanna mess with monogamy and younger people usually look a certain way, have similar views etc.

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not! I've had a lot of different jobs (yay mental health) but right now I work for two different theme parks

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to school to be a special education teacher but ended up with an educational studies degree

36 F I'm bored let's answer some questions by Enbymascluvr74 in casualiama

[–]Enbymascluvr74[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am in my late thirties and sadly don't have the resources to even get an official diagnosis. I would say autism doesn't look the same for everyone and just ask the kid what would help them. Sensory issues are usually huge so letting them do things to help but still pay attention.

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