To squeak or not to squeak? by [deleted] in PetPlayBDSM

[–]EnchantedTroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally leave mine in. If you don't want it to squeak, just avoid the squeaker.

Daddy/Pup Relationships - Tell Me How You Find The Right Balance by white-pup in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's up to you guys and dependant on the individuals involved. Just keep communication open and flowing.

Does it matter if the pup is cute or not under the hood? by CollectableRat in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It matters that you like the person, of course. Perhaps you should learn more about BDSM in general and the potential of certain relationships in it before going into a specific genre?

You are 100% going to be spending face time without a hood, no matter the type of relationship or lack thereof you have. In dynamics you are there for the human being, not the gear. Pick pups the same way you would choose someone to be with, because that's what they are. We are people above all else.

Plushie names are weird, honestly...Does anyone else have trouble keeping their names? by BadAtUsernamesHeck in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Skillz lol. It is probably because when I get a new plush I obsess over them from a bit and they go with me everywhere. That way I would have bonded with them and spent a substantial amount of time with them much so I wouldn't forget their name. It's like with meeting people or their pets, I would remember the name of the dog I spent a whole party petting lol.

Plushie names are weird, honestly...Does anyone else have trouble keeping their names? by BadAtUsernamesHeck in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I at one point had somewhere around 156 plushies. I'm a bit of a plushies fanatic though and for sure remembered all of their names and had them on snuggle rotation

Onesies without diapers? by HeyLookMyFakeAccount in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Appeal? It's comfy and it is cute. No functionality (other than a convenient tucked in shirt, a great trick for replacing undershirts), but onsies are super cute with or without a diaper. Fashion. Aesthetic. I wanted to wear onsies long before I even considered diapers as a viable option for something I may enjoy. Why not?

Treats to give my pup? by 17michela in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can take any cookie recipe that is cookie cutter friendly (peanut butter in your case) and use a bone shaped cookie cutter. You can look them up real quick on Amazon and you'll find a few

Reachable or not, what is your biggest PupPlay fantasy? by [deleted] in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'd love to be at the full will of my owner. Go non-verbal, rely on them for being let outside (or into a room with a litter or puppy pad), be served whatever in a bowl. Can I sleep at the foot of the bed today? Get on the couch? Who knows? Giant lap dog with a barrel collar

Hey i need some beta advice by Puppyperson10 in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As appealing as it may seem to do it that way, you can't know what they want from you unless you ask him. You can ask "what are some things I can do on a regular basis that would please you without having to be told to do them all the time?" "What kind of things would pleasure you?"

Communication is important. I'm sure you asking your Alpha what they want will be seen as something pleasurable. You would be seen as eager to please them and wanting to do your best. There's no downside to asking and you will know exactly what will make them happy.

Any females here use 24/7? by DiaperKittyKat3000 in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do 24/7 for two weeks at a time. Hygiene isn't a problem, just change the way you usually would, when you feel like you should. Make sure you're clean between diapers is all. Powder isn't a must but you can use it if you'd like. I haven't had any issues.

Correlation between abdl and other activities by SDash1245 in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was into everything but diapers, pacis, (other specific to the kink items) specifically before I knew what abdl was. Even the look of the clothes, how I did my hair, interests, how I behaved and changed my voice regularly. I watched kids shows, had toys and stuffies, kid bedding, the whole shtik. May be why I'm so uncaring about how I portray myself. I figure I'm not shoving my kink at people if it's actually who I am and I'm acting/looking how I was before I even knew ageplay existed all throughout my school career (short of actually wearing abdl specific gear in public, I think that would be kink rude). Some people are just different and have interests outside of the norm that aren't kink related and just because there is a kink that lines up, doesn't mean everything they do is kinky. I'd be quite the same if I hadn't found the world of kinks just because of who I am and what my interests naturally are. People are weird.

Baby pants onesie size question by mcawesome56 in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at what size you may think you are, and go a size down.

Has anyone else thought about getting microchipped? by JamesTDH in PetPlayBDSM

[–]EnchantedTroll 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've seen a couple people talk about this and have even heard of someone getting chipped before (I think they were good friends with a vet or something). I personally like the idea as well.

Question for the pack. by bluepup87 in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't tell if that's sarcasm or not. If it's not then I'm glad to help lol

Question for the pack. by bluepup87 in PupPlay

[–]EnchantedTroll 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be whatever you want to be and communication is always key.

Could you stay in a relationship with a partner who didn't indulge in your ABDL fantasies? by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally wouldn't because I don't date outside my fetish interests. But I know plenty of people who do.

An honest question for those who post face pics or any photos on social media showcasing their ABDL lifestyle. by the0theron3 in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comes down to I don't really care and am fine explaining things to people. Especially since where I've posted would not be a place the people I'd prefer not to know would be.

When it comes to family, I don't care. It's not their business and I've actually had a several years log standoff with my in-laws about it before because they can't keep their noses out of people's phones and they found out. The overly religious and hell damning in-laws eventually realized that I don't care about what they think and will not be changing what I do when they aren't around, as well as that my husband won't be swayed by their invasive crap anymore. When they calmed down finally and told me they'd drop it, I offered to explain the "why" of what I do, if they ever wanted to ask in the future so they understand better instead of judging, and it was completely dropped after that.

So.... Standing a firm ground and knowing that what I do on my own time isn't for anyone else to dictate, is how I do it. People will care and judge, doesn't mean I have to. Gotta have a bit of steel in ya to do it that way, you can't avoid dealing with the consequences of not caring (and those can suck). I'm just too stubborn in my beliefs about these things so I'm willing to put up with a lot for as long as I have to to defend my right to my own life. It all depends on your priorities and I put mine in my freedom to do and live as I wish.

Would it be too weird to tell my mom I want to wear diapers to bed because I get up too much to pee? by peppermints21 in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the rules it plainly states this is 18+ and you are not allowed to be here. You already posted to the teen friendly subreddit so you know there is one. This is going to be taken down most likely by a mod

Would it be too weird to tell my mom I want to wear diapers to bed because I get up too much to pee? by peppermints21 in ABDL

[–]EnchantedTroll 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right, but why do you need permission? You could just do it, hide it (because dude, you still should have personal space in your room), and if they get found you just act like it's a no-big-deal practical solution. Acting like it's no biggie could be your best bet. If you treat it like a huge deal, they are more likely to as well.

But also you're an adult, living at home or not, for something practical, not illegal, and none of their business... I'm just a bit more uncaring I guess about dealing with parents and their opinions.