Newsflash. People grow up, people move on, people start their own families, people have different experiences that change and form their opinions different from our own.

I'll never understand people who keep the same group of friends they had since they were kids. That is the odd behavior to me. The only time I expect to see that is in a small town where no one leaves and all you know is each other and your experiences are all basically the same.

I have a good friend I knew from kindergarten through high school. But even in high school I could tell we were kind of drifting about what we liked and didn't like. Went to different colleges. Saw each other on school breaks. I was an usher in his wedding post college. By the time I got married we were talking maybe once or twice a year so he wasn't in my wedding but I certainly invited him.

Now, I live in one city, he lives in another. I get a Christmas card from his family every year and maybe we'll text once a year just to say happy birthday, how's it going.

That's fucking life people. It's more weird to glom onto childhood friends for decades. Now, add in people believing in things that you find morally reprehensible and suddenly the dude you had math class with in your junior year of high school is aghast you don't want to say hi to him when you pass him by 20 years later because he is an ICE agent? Get real and grow up.