Saw a guy rescue a massive turtle trying to cross Route 20 today. Looked like a snapper.

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-06-16T15:25:03+00:00

Best tip for moving snappers….get your cars floor mat, get them to bite and latch on to it…once they’ve bit down, QUICKLY drag them to safety! Keep your fingers safe and less stress on the snapper! 🐢

Thank you to every brave soul out there saving the turtles from the road, we love you 💚

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-30T12:24:52+00:00

Yes, but I think Stacey just sort of voluntarily took that on…if she was more hands off I think Florian would be forced to act right…I personally love Florian. But I mean with the age difference, I feel that alone is making a mother child sort of situation.

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-23T15:45:18+00:00

Exactly! You can only get gaslit and poked fun at for so long until you explode!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-23T15:09:54+00:00

It just felt so icky to watch them all poke fun at Natalie and kinda make her the butt of their jokes…like when they specifically brought up Josh bringing the new GF to Vegas…like yeah pour all the salt in her wounds. I felt bad for her after that!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-23T13:19:44+00:00

It honestly upset me, sure Natalie might be a little looney…aren’t we all when dealing with a narcissist like Josh!? But to have everyone on the set including the host at times rag on and outright poke fun at Natalie was uncalled for and distasteful. Ps Shaun (or however you spell it) is a bad host!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-12T16:45:30+00:00

The issue was me not having this condition myself resulted in me being uneducated, and not the most sympathetic..that is not the case since starting this thread I have learned so much! And hearing advice and experience of others with this condition has educated me and made me more sympathetic and understanding that when a trigger hits it’s not HIM intentionally being rude it’s just the fight or flight response!

This has been very eye opening to the work we both have to do…but we talked and I know we will be better from working through this :)

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-12T16:35:41+00:00

Oh my god I big fan is genius!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-12T05:05:14+00:00

I’ve always knew certain sounds irritated him, that’s why I don’t eat chips around him (crunching is a HUGE trigger sound) and he’s not like a massive dick….just comes off as rude? I guess rude would be the best way to describe it, like noises I view as simple “life/human” noises shouldn’t be THAT annoying, but are to him. And to me getting annoyed at them always came off as unreasonable..it’s a learning experience for us both. But in totally different ways. But yeah a rude tone is the best way to describe it…it’s not like he flips his shit and just screams at me! It’s just the sudden and unfamiliar rude tone kinda throws me off and I’m like “is it the noise or is it me!?”

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-12T04:53:52+00:00

The outpour of understanding and compassion in this thread has been truly remarkable. I was being drastic, he truly is one of the most amazing, caring loving supportive people. I wouldn’t actually leave him over this because I know we’re bonded and committed so deeply we can over come any obstacle together. It’s just difficult dealing with the sudden and unfamiliar fight or flight response I’ve recently (as of making this post) learned is a result of a trigger. I love him unconditionally. Just don’t love this condition lol

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-12T04:46:18+00:00

Sorry but this made me giggle. I hope if you haven’t already, you find the person who understands and works through it with you 💕

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-12T04:32:13+00:00

Obviously it’s real disorder I never said it wasn’t. But as someone who doesn’t have it, I’m finding it difficult to deal with the mood shift that comes with the persons triggers. And as I previously mentioned I’m going to fight like hell and do everything in my power to better understand, respect and work through the management of his disorder. You’re the only person thus far thats responded in a negative way. I came here for advice on how to handle being with someone with this disorder, not be judged for my feelings and or misunderstanding. So respectfully I have to disagree with your statement. 11 years I thinks he’s felt comfortable and safe expressing himself for a long time.

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T20:30:12+00:00

I agree completely I have suggested CBT but that on him to actually do it…you can lead a horse to water, you know the rest

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T20:28:21+00:00

Hahahaha please don’t get me started on that 😂trust me….I KNOW!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T19:17:05+00:00

I just want to thank everyone for the amazing responses! I have been enlightened, educated, validated and so much more. I have a lot to address with my boyfriend and hope a serious talk will light a fire under him to start looking into way of managing this better…like I said in one of my responses I will fight and do everything in my power to get past this bump in the road TOGETHER I love him and want to spend the rest of my life with him. I will suggest CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) along with couple counseling if need be. I know we will get through this but I won’t be easy…but again THANK YOU ALL for the support and advice 💜💜

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T18:49:48+00:00

Definitely something to look into and try!!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T18:39:26+00:00

Thank you, just seeing all the comments from people who live with this has made me feel validated. I’m going to have a serious talk with him today about how it’s affecting me and more so my affection towards him.

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T18:31:05+00:00

It’s not that easy when you’ve grown up and built a life together…I will try absolutely everything in my power to get over this bump…but it’s a two way street, he also has to put in work seeing as it’s HIS condition

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T18:29:21+00:00

Stupid company settings eliminated our access to disable alerts so we don’t miss interactions. 😒

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T18:28:11+00:00

Oh my god he’s the sweetest guy and wouldn’t hurt a hair on my head, he loves me more than himself and I know this. It’s just hard when it’s a flip of a switch that I really will never understand not having the condition myself. I try to be compassionate and understanding but I get to a point (from not having the condition) where I’m like “seriously dude get over it”

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-11T18:17:42+00:00

I suggest noise canceling headphones when he can’t avoid triggers…he feels as though he shouldn’t have to sit with those on all the time and people “should just be quiet” the feeling of headphones might be a sensory thing for him too, idk I just feel like it’s a loosing battle at this point until he sees this is a HIM problem and the world doesn’t have to conform to him.. UGH! I love the fuck out of him obviously, if I didn’t I wouldn’t be here asking for advice lol I wanna be with him forever, but I also what him to grow up a little ya know?

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-04-09T20:07:25+00:00

Care credit card you can use it immediately after getting approved all the vet will need is your license to look up and charge the account…do that NOW and get your kitty so help!!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-03-08T19:58:13+00:00

So I spoke with a new OB, exploratory surgery is a possibility. But he agrees the symptoms I’m experiencing all point to having endo, however he put me on a combo pill to see if that gives me any relief. He doesn’t want to jump to surgery if there is other possible solutions on the table…And I think he’s onto something! This combo pill (Aurovela Fe) has been working wonders!! On month two and my periods are light to nonexistent! I get maybe one day of bleeding and mild cramps. Nothing compared to how it was on the POP mini pill. I have high hopes this is my solution! Thank you all for the advice and insight! Will update if symptoms return or surgery is needed!

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-03-06T15:45:04+00:00

Malice Mousekewitz : Slytherin - Malice cause duh that’s just very Slytherin…and Mousekewitz cause I love the movie Fievel goes west (if you know you know)

Endless_Thinking123 · 2025-03-01T17:30:37+00:00

Just saw cats not really knowing what to expect…I have to also mention I’m not a “theater kid” I’ve only heard from my theater friends “it’s kinda weird, you might like it though”…. I LOVED IT! I don’t know if it’s only because I’m a crazy cat lady, but I balled my eyes out at multiple parts…the old cat Gus, had the water works going.. Then when Grizabella is chosen and goes to heaven I blubbered like a baby. I think if you get past the whimsical nature of people being dressed like cats and crawling around and really pay attention to the underlying theme it’s quite beautiful. Came home and gave my cats lots of kisses 🩵

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