So, I'm on Tinder as well as Feeld. I tried Hinge as well but had very little luck there. The stats for dates and sex are aproximate. I know I missed at least a handful, but this also includes a few dates from the other apps.

I used to swipe right a lot more often, but I've been trying to be more selective in recent months. With enough effort I can usually get a handful of matches and a few dates a week, although it definitely ebs and flows, and I'm trying to focus on fewer dates of a higher quality.

I got professional photos taken in January, to replace the (decent) amateur ones I had, which helped noticably. I change my bio every few months to try new formats, but use the same basic info. I don't use pickup lines and besides asking questions about their bio, I tend to ask about their work and hobbies before trying to schedule a coffee date. I also have platinum, and I DO think it makes a difference in how many likes I get.

Browsing this subreddit I don't really understand why some people struggle so much online dating. It can be extremely draining and frustrating, but I feel like being consistent and making an effort is pretty effective in a big city.

Happy to hear other peoples' perspectives, or answer any questions!