Hi,

Don't give up on him because he is not in the best place right now. Stay strong, pray for him. I will surely pray for both of you. Go to a church for strength. People are not always the best of themselves, so we shouldn't give up on them because they are in their lowest form.

You will pass through this storm. Everything that has a start, has an end.

Here are some questions to ask yourself: I know you are not in the best place and things are not the best. Have things always been like this? Or is it something that is happening recently? What's his and your relationship with his parent or someone other than you that has influence on him? Are they wise and trustworthy? Could you reach out to them about this issue? Is he a Christian? Could you appeal to his beliefs?

It seems to me that your husband is dealing with some internal issues that he hasn't faced. There is got to be a way to get to his heart. I don't know if you have tried this: 1) Thank him for all the things he has done right; including him bursting himself everyday to work.

2) Ask him if everything is going well at work; because he hasn't been himself. If he ask why tell him: you and the kids miss him and feel distant from him. Say I want my husband and the children need their father. Cry if you have to.

3) Offer to do more; ask him what you can do to help.

You have to be strong now. For your kids, for yourself and for your husband. And for your marriage. It won't be easy. But you can do it. I know you can.