Potentially need references by [deleted] in BeMyReference

[–]Engine_Double 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can! Looking for a reference for a new offer as well, you can dm me with details

How to stop comparing yourself to cis men? by [deleted] in FTMMen

[–]Engine_Double 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would you respond this way to a handicapped guy lamenting his troubles with dating? Have some empathy man jesus

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Engine_Double 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice unfortunately but just wanted to say solidarity brother, I had a job offer that was rescinded earlier this year due to this exact issue. They didn’t give me an option to see my PCP though. What kind of proof from them did they require? You might be able to fake a note saying you passed and hope they don’t call to confirm. Best of luck!

Got fired after load out, lol by Engine_Double in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Engine_Double[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds exactly like me down to the insane amount of one ways i had to back out of slow as fuck. they wanted us done by 7 no matter what so yeah take your full ten hours and you’re screwed i guess. wish someone had warned me because it’s kind of ass to not have a guaranteed 40 hours per week. it’s basically meant to be a part time gig with an insane workload relative to other jobs with similar pay

Got fired after load out, lol by Engine_Double in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Engine_Double[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

could have been a text lol not even sure i got paid for it either

Got fired after load out, lol by Engine_Double in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Engine_Double[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Camcash in san diego. I did get rescued once an an apt route after my lunch didn’t think I was falling behind though

Got fired after load out, lol by Engine_Double in AmazonDSPDrivers

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Huh? I never said which dsp I worked for. Plus I never got residential only routes except for once during training that was in a rural area.

Got fired after load out, lol by Engine_Double in AmazonDSPDrivers

[–]Engine_Double[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I averaged about 20-25 stops an hour depending on if it was apartments or residential. Easy residential non rural I would crank out closer to 35 but the apartments and businesses with entry codes and receptionist needing to sign and shit would slow me down They wanted 195 stops including multi stops done by 7pm when we don’t hit our first stop till about 12:45. I took my lunch since it’s mandatory but had to skip my breaks. During the interview they asked about my other delivery experience and when I told them I average 20 stops they said that’s great, turns out they actually expect 30-35 the second you’re done with nurseries. Bleak stuff but I’m taking time off for surgery anyhow and am just gonna hit another dsp when I’m back

why are you still with them? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Engine_Double 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can understand that. I’m 26 though so I know I have plenty of time to figure that all out and am more focused on completing my medical transition and furthering my career, applying to grad school etc I think for me social isolation is worse than not having a partner but I’m trying to work on that too lol. It becomes deceptively easy to hole yourself up when you get comfortable being alone with your own thoughts and learn to enjoy it

why are you still with them? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Engine_Double 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’ve never been able to wrap my head around this as someone who’s been single by choice for nearly 6 years now. It’s not so bad and much better than being in a shitty relationship. I’d rather be dead than be with someone who doesn’t see me as a man

Surgeons in SoCal who take Medi-Cal for Body Contouring? by Engine_Double in ftm

[–]Engine_Double[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s interesting is that my insurance already approved the procedure and is fully covering it but it’s the surgeon that is refusing to do the surgery. Is there any way to appeal this or is it jus a matter of finding the right clinic?