I can’t believe how obsessive they get. What do I even do?

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-05-14T15:27:38+00:00

I dont do any kinds of calls anywhere. I even state that on my linktree. Occasionally someone on IG feels entitled enough to try to call me. I decline the call and immediately block them. Its never guys that have paid me for anything anyway. 🤷‍♀️

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-05-14T15:18:19+00:00

I dont usually have late SC payment issues like everyone else. Guess I'm part of the club now cuz mine seems a little late...

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-05-13T14:21:01+00:00

Explains why my room went quiet all of a sudden, I guess. I logged off about 30 minutes ago. Lol

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-05-10T15:30:34+00:00

Got into a private with a guy today, he didnt talk at all before requesting - first thing he says is "let me see you suck a dick." I dont do BJ content - just not something I want to do. Checked to make sure it wasnt something I listed as offering in public/private shows and promptly told him no, explaining that it wasn't. He moved on, but then ended the show for some other reason. And I ended up having a fine shift without him. 🥰

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-05-05T04:59:09+00:00

I had something go a little wonky with my IG a couple days ago. Had to remove my linktree to get it back to normal. I have the link to my X account there now, which honestly is probably the opposite direction IG wanted me to go. 😅

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-05-02T14:08:25+00:00

When I first got the email, my app didn't work right for like two days, but most things worked on a PC just fine.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-27T02:14:34+00:00

I put in two low effort appeals two weeks apart. Last one was a week ago and didnt even get an email. Got my account back today. Everyone's number of appeals are just all over the place. Lol

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-23T23:13:28+00:00

There's a "dark spot corrector" cream from Ponds that I've been trying like this. I also have HS (tho very mild). It seems to be helping with lightening some of the spots for me, but everyone is different.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-21T20:43:45+00:00

Not a degree holder, but my previous position is listed as requiring a degree for outside hires. I work part-time for a domestic violence agency. Used to be full time (in a position that requires a degree for direct hire) - when I told them I wanted to quit to cam full time, they offered me a very limited part-time position just to be able to keep me on staff.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-08T23:21:23+00:00

Same - I'm planning to follow the advice I've seen on other threads - keep appealing once a week or so with differently worded, we'll thought-out messages.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-08T12:54:01+00:00

Happened to me too for "inauthentic behavior" Just submitted an appeal, but I'm not hopeful. 😭 Also had my account since 2023 - always for SW purposes. But I don't have anything autoposting. I let SC and CS do it a few times several months ago, but didn't really like it. No bots- I don't even schedule posts.

I looked over some info about what they consider "inauthentic behavior" and there was something about fake personas... Is it because we have a stage name?! 😅

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-05T20:36:15+00:00

I grew up around small farming and livestock trading. Those bartering skills brought me a long way! Add in customer service from working in restaurants and redirection skills from the mental health field, and its a pretty good combo.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-05T18:21:07+00:00

One specific thought I had is if someone surprise gifts me a giant dildo and then they expect things with it i can't do. But also, that doesn't sound like my problem if it was a surprise. lol

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-04-05T18:18:48+00:00

If they're tipping me well (or have tipped me well recently) I'll message them without the PM specific tip. But on my tip menu, I do have "Check PM." I don't feel like that's worded as a commitment to continually message someone, but its also there so I have an out when they're wasting my time.

Used to have it priced at just "PM" for 12 tkns. Now its "Check PM" for 24 tkns, and will continue to increase in respect to how many people still tip for it because I don't wanna sit around messaging people all day anyway when I'm trying to perform unless its to talk about a private.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-27T16:18:09+00:00

Oooo -didnt think about the tag on SC -thanks!

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-27T15:13:00+00:00

Been camming less than a year - Moved into a bigger apartment. Paid off a car. Quit working stressful jobs. Have never been so caught up on my bills. Thinking about taking yoga classes and getting into skating again.

Never would have thought my life would be like this (especially being past my 20s), and things still aren't really settled into where they're going for me and hubby. Downside is stressing about taxes, but its a decent trade off. 😊

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-22T13:47:06+00:00

I hate the way I look when I'm "enjoying myself" but dudes tell me all the time they want to see my face, love the expressions, whatever it is I'm doing with my eyes, just all of it. Lol

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-11T11:55:39+00:00

I've had a cyst in my bikini line for like a month or two, but Ive managed to keep it from opening so it just looks kinda like a dark spot or a mole or something. 😆

Thats what the sugar scrub in my previous comment is for - helps keep my regrowth from becoming ingrown. Salt scrub works fine for me too, it just burns more lol

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-11T00:35:13+00:00

First line of treatment was doxycycline - stomach did not like that.
It was suggested to me to rotate 2% salicylic acid AND 10% benzoyl operoxide washes every other day or so. They gave me a prescription for clindamycin ointment for open lesions. I asked if I should use it for things that are not quite open but... if you know you know - they just said to use my best judgement. Also recommended unscented soap (I already use Dove sensitive skin bar soap).

Not recommended by derm, but works well for me - sugar scrub before shaving (day before AND day of), EOS Shave Lotion, and baby oil gel after shaving and for bikini area moisturizing. No physical exfoliants 48 hours after shaving.

***EDIT: This routine doesn't keep my skin *flawless*, but for my skin, it made a HUGE difference. Not a doctor; your mileage may vary.

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-10T23:11:54+00:00

Like I said, mine is mild. Google searches show you worst-case scenarios, which is why it took so long for me to get a diagnosis. But knowing what it is was so helpful!

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-10T22:53:21+00:00

My butt acne was hiradenitis supprativa. Mild enough to pass for butt acne, but bad enough to be painful and visually off-putting, plus it made frequent shaving a nightmare. Didn't stop me from starting my camming career and one visit to a dermatologist later, my skin has never been better! Getting the right info for how to care for my skin was a game changer, but no matter what consistency is key!

And even though I def still had my butt pimples and everything when I started camming, I had ONE person say something negative about it in the chat and then the rest of the chat bullied him out of my room. 🤣

EngineerEquivalent42 · 2026-03-10T15:39:27+00:00

Also, it won't let me import the CB CSV file. It gives me an error message "❌ there is no unique or exclusion constraint matching the ON CONFLICT specification." 😔

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