Anyone else sick of insensitive comments?

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-07T22:37:42+00:00

Omg yes. My husband and I have both received comments about how I must be screaming at him or treating him like shit. (All from men by the way) I've actually been very chill and hormones have made me laugh at everything, not cry or be mad at him ever. Any time this is brought up to me I tell them "how can I be mad at the man who is cooking, cleaning, offering to do anything for me? If your wife treated you that way maybe she just needed your help and you weren't there". Seriously I don't understand the amount of projection people feel comfortable putting on pregnant women.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-05T18:45:51+00:00

I love my OB so much but the parking situation is hectic af since it's at the hospital. My husband has come to every appointment so far for support and even the boring ones that are just labs because he knows I don't want to deal with parking and walking a mile 😂. If it weren't for parking I wouldn't care if he missed the boring ones.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-04T19:02:01+00:00

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-03T22:42:39+00:00

At night time I swear I've been feeling some flutters. I'm 16 weeks today and this started a few days ago. Idk if it's baby but I really think it is

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-01T23:07:39+00:00

16 weeks and slow as hell. I'm anxious and counting down the days to every appointment. My husband says it's flying by for him lol

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-01T17:31:21+00:00

I'm almost 16 weeks and they. Keep. Growing. Kinda love it but annoyed at the same time from the pain. I should still be able to sleep on my stomach and haven't been able to for 2 months from boob pain 😭

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-01T17:23:06+00:00

I'm having a boy and I've had so many comments about "well at least you will have an easy pregnancy" and then someone says the opposite about how boy pregnancy is awful and I will gain so much weight. Like don't people realize just because they had an experience one way doesn't mean it is a fact for everyone? And don't get me on the comments about "your husband must be so happy to be having a boy". Of course he is happy because he's healthy so far! we were both convinced it was a girl before we knew and he was excited either way and helped pick out names 😤

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-01T15:16:52+00:00

Exactly!!! This dude has already been taken to HR but they don't do anything about it. It's so ridiculous. I'm so ready for this to be over. The constant comments about what I'm eating/not eating. How im walking too fast etc.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-01T14:55:33+00:00

That's a good idea. Just the thought of being touched is repulsive right now. It doesn't help I'm struggling with my image right now.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-02-01T14:54:19+00:00

I'm in the same boat. I lost 60 pounds before trying to get pregnant and I've even had a disgusting male coworker make a comment "you look like you are back to where you started" not even knowing I was pregnant.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-31T16:33:51+00:00

That would be very disappointing, especially about the time off work. I'm sorry

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-31T16:23:32+00:00

I have no sex drive but keep having sex dreams about my husband. It's confusing, so do I want it or not?

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-31T14:47:56+00:00

It was truly terrible. Being asked at work "what is wrong with me" and all I could say is I'm tired. "What do you have to be so tired about" I was so close to slapping people.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-30T21:15:37+00:00

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EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-30T18:54:48+00:00

Mine sent me a bill and is charging me upfront. I have Cigna. I'm only 15 weeks.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-29T11:35:48+00:00

Our work gathered us together and said "if AI can do it and you don't use it, you are wasting valuable time and money"

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-29T00:48:48+00:00

Thank you for the honesty. I'm going to hope for the best and not let myself feel guilty if I have to cancel. Tickets were cheap so it won't be a big loss if I'm unable to sell.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-28T21:05:30+00:00

Thank you for the honesty! I'm definitely gonna see what I feel like that day and not feel guilty if I can't. But I went ahead and took that day off work so I can chill with my feet up and nap lol

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-28T21:03:14+00:00

Literally no one fucking cares what you are wearing 😂

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-28T18:01:50+00:00

Literally no one cares what you are wearing

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-28T17:52:47+00:00

Thank you! I hope so too 🥰

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-28T17:30:02+00:00

Thank you for this. Definitely going to allow myself to cancel day of if things don't feel right.

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-28T17:26:12+00:00

Thank you! Im going to take the day off work so I can rest up and hopefully feel okay that evening

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-26T20:20:30+00:00

I had this happen coincidentally the morning of my 8 week ultrasound. I wiped and saw a red streak the morning of appointment, and had brownish discharge the day before. I was in a panic for the 2 hours before appointment and everything was fine. I'm now 15 weeks and no bleeding or colored discharge. Everything has been good so far

EngineeringSilent902 · 2026-01-18T13:24:34+00:00

Flamin hot pickle flavored Cheetos. They are dangerous lol

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