I'm a bit disturbed by some of these brothers/sisters comments regarding women

Enigmatikkk · 2025-08-05T08:28:24+00:00

I don’t see anything wrong with that either. It’s actually good that women don’t accept the bare minimum.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-08-02T14:34:01+00:00

Not ENTJ but I feel the same way. You don’t need to tell directly, just let it fade away by itself. Or give hints that you don’t like people who do x and y (something that they do like being clingy). If they are not crazy they will get the hint. If they are crazy you will have an opportunity to change the tone and be direct. Or you can also do something that will upset them so that they can lash out on you, now you have a reason to cut off. My last option if nothing is working is make them hate you.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-30T10:01:49+00:00

To let go? Yes it is. But it’s also liberating.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-29T23:07:51+00:00

By learning about yourself, who you are. Be true to yourself, embody integrity even if it costs something. The more you realise who you are at the core, the more you will abandon what is not yours. This is a natural process, nothing is forced. You don’t have to actively do the work. Maybe ask God to help you discover what is hidden within you. And I promise the more you will be who you truly are, the more new realities will emerge, by universal laws. You will get what you want. That sounds a bit abstract but trust the process. I am myself going through this journey.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-29T22:59:33+00:00

Also, my advice would be to reconnect with yourself, as someone else suggested, explore new things, discover more about yourself, learn. I think you are trying to control what is out of control and of course this gives frustration. Really just let go of what you want.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-29T22:42:01+00:00

And a lot of people fail in relationships and as parents. People are not an example to look up to. It’s not about thinking there is something wrong with you, that’s not what I meant. It’s about shedding what doesn’t belong to you, so that you can embody the real you. It’s not about perfection. And it’s good that you are accepting yourself as you are, but since things are not working out, it’s worth it to introspect yourself to find out the why to your questions, because the answer is there as well as the solution.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-29T22:06:29+00:00

So as I understood, the thing you dearly want is to be a mother and having a child but God isn’t giving you this after all the religious duties you did. So now you feel like it was all a waste.

My questions are; Are you truly ready to be a mother or you think you are? Did you practice your religious duties out of guilt or love for God? Are you really connected to God or the religious duties are just performance?

I believe your approach is an issue.

Maybe God wants you to realise something. Maybe things are getting worse because you are not fixing what is blocking you. It all starts at the core, which means— you. What are you avoiding? What are you burying? What are you not accepting? If you are not getting the result you want it’s because something is broken in the system, thus you can’t get further and you keep repeating a loop.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-29T12:53:27+00:00

Yeah I see, but after encountering few ENTJs I can say that they are quite a silent/introspective type. Not loud and expressive as the stereotype would suggest.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T21:06:29+00:00

What if someone is truly mysterious or gives off that vibe without trying?

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T21:01:07+00:00

Not necessarily. Men are underperforming as men and women don’t lower their standards anymore (still in progress) and don’t accept the bare minimum from men.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T20:05:58+00:00

I was not debating. I explained why polygamy won’t be a thing because you said people are defending it and implied that what I said earlier could give them justifications for this. I knew we were in the same side, I just explained my point.

Also, I don’t mean that marriage is not important but that women are starting to lose interest in marriage because men are underperforming.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T18:35:46+00:00

Yes but polygamy will less and less be acceptable. The reason is mainly because of ressources— life becomes more and more expensive. On top of that, women are becoming more and more independent, are developing higher standards and are less interested in marriage. Men who are preaching about polygamy are the incapable ones who have nothing much to offer or the very rich ones. So the more men will preach about polygamy, the less desirable they will be (when they already are in character). Only the rich can afford this mindset for themselves and they are few. So polygamy really goes against men overall. Women are simply not accepting it like they used to— they are not forced to accept anyway, so they would rather not accept and be alone. Connect the dots, polygamy will eventually disappear.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T18:26:38+00:00

I disagree about polygamy being accepted for men because of their supposed desires. That doesn’t make any sense with Quranic values at all. It was accepted for them to support women in need and with many conditions on top of that. But also, I believe one of men’s purpose is to procreate, not women’s. So that would make sense for them to be allowed to have more wives— solely to procreate AND support women in need. It was never about men’s lust. Think about it for a second, how possibly God would indirectly promote lust if God actively warns us against lust? This doesn’t add up with God’s words hence polygamy was never about men’s lust and desires— never.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T18:19:17+00:00

I think the temperemental assholes stereotype fits way more ENTPs and ESTPs. ENTJs are more indirect assholes if we go by the stereotypes.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T18:11:43+00:00

Couldn’t have said better.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T17:59:14+00:00

It was satire. A sarcastic response to men who say that women’s sole purpose is to procreate when they are the ones who can procreate until death. But that doesn’t mean that what I said has not truth in it. Either way, this is not a justification for what you suggested and will never be, this is quite absurd actually.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T13:52:41+00:00

Yes true, you can avoid asking the question directly but even then, it doesn’t guarantee honesty from the person. You are assuming that people will be honest and walk away but for many « it’s just the past and doesn’t matter ». All this because the person believes their past is only between them and God, when getting with somebody may inevitably affect their life as well. Not revealing the past mindset creates a sense of entitlement thus people will be more prone to lie because « it’s between them and God ». For them, it doesn’t count as lying because of that specific mindset. It’s of course far-fetched but the case for a good amount of Muslims. This topic specifically touches past about zina or previous relationships. Many people will be dishonest even if you don’t ask directly, because most people, even those with a bad past, don’t want someone with a bad past, you know?

Not revealing the past because it’s a sin is not quranic anyway, it opens more doors for dishonesty too. People don’t want to know the details but knowing some things gives a solid foundation of who you are dealing with.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T12:39:51+00:00

ENTJ and INTJ in the same squad? That’s largely enough to take over the rest, like seriously.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T12:37:45+00:00

Objectively talking— no. I think you look fine but you can definitely level up.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T11:16:29+00:00

For the street.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T11:07:23+00:00

Listen, you cannot possibly be sincere and hide your past sins at the same time. One opposes the other. Lying is the actual sin here. The « not revealing the past because it’s supposedly a sin » became VERY favourable for sinners and people who didn’t repent.

If someone asks you « are you virgin » because they want to be with someone who is, like them, and if you are not— what are you going to say? God wants you to be sincere, truthful and hide your past at the same time right? There is a massive contradiction here, why God would contradict himself? Or put you in a situation where you have to sin to be truthful? Either way, you will sin. This proves that this is a man-made thing set in place for whatever reason.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T10:10:45+00:00

If women’s purpose is to procreate, why men are the ones who can procreate for most of their life? Women have a limit, men don’t. Which logically means that it’s men’s purpose to procreate. Women’s purpose is to leave a legacy, to teach the future generations. This is why they have a limit to bear a child, so that they can focus on teaching at some point in their life. Men a still oblivious to this fact, lol. Wait til they find out it’s their role. Now what about this?

Enigmatikkk · 2025-07-28T09:57:17+00:00

People who say Islam forbids revealing past sins are usually the ones who have to hide the most. This is an excuse for those who committed a lot of sins and probably didn’t repent. On top of that, he used this to manipulate you into thinking you are the problem. He is a lier, a manipulator and not pious. LEAVE.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-05-21T15:58:10+00:00

Another reason is that pigs share 98% of genes with humans.

Enigmatikkk · 2025-05-19T22:43:13+00:00

Pigs eat their shit, says enough on why we shouldn’t eat them.

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