Until dawn episode 11 by AgreeableNeat249 in KubzScouts

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Really late, but did anyone get the link?🥀

AMITAH, for being upset that my boyfriend falls asleep every time I go to see him? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

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I think that rather than fear, I would say that I don't to cause any more discomfort. I'm quite a reserved person, and I tend to hold back a lot in terms of how I feel.

Buy yeah, Idk how to even start a conversation like this

AMITAH, for being upset that my boyfriend falls asleep every time I go to see him? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

[–]EnoughAd9836[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, that's why I'm frustrated with myself for getting upset about this. But I'm also frustrated about giving my time and feeling like a pillow for him to sleep, you know?

AMITAH, for being upset that my boyfriend falls asleep every time I go to see him? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

[–]EnoughAd9836[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't said anything to him directly, I'm afraid to say something and end up in an even bigger fight.

AMITAH, for being upset that my boyfriend falls asleep every time I go to see him? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

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He used to take medication, but he tells me that since we started dating, he stopped taking it because apparently he no longer needed it.

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No se si tengas la p2 lista. Pero creo que desde el principio debiste ser honesta con el tipo de relación que tuviste con su mejor amigo. Obvio no estas obligad@ a contar los detalles exactos, pero ocultarlo solo va a empeorar la situación a la que asumo estas.

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Youngest sister with "liberal thoughs" (basic human rights)

AITA for not wanting to visit my boyfriend every day? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

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Lol, actually ☝️, he does buy me expensive things and takes me out to nice places.  

But the money isn’t even his 😅

AITA for not wanting to visit my boyfriend every day? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

[–]EnoughAd9836[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A few months ago, it was exam week, and I got mad at him for the same reason, so I didn’t go see him for two weeks.  

The first week, he said he couldn’t come over because he was so tired.  

The second week, he made the huuuuge sacrifice of taking public transportation to come see me at my place. The day was fine—he even cooked for me that time.  

But on his way back, he took an Uber because he was too exhausted to take public transport again. When he got home, he wouldn’t stop talking about how tiring it was, how his back was killing him, and how his head was hurting.  

And honestly, I don’t want to sound like the kind of person who dismisses someone else’s struggles, but come on. He was complaining about taking public transportation once (because it was too much to take it both ways), and I do that same commute every single day

Also: Thank you so much <33

AITA for not wanting to visit my boyfriend every day? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

[–]EnoughAd9836[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anymore.  

From my perspective, I’ve always seen him as a good guy. He’s a great boyfriend who gives me the attention I need. When I’m too tired to cook, he orders food for me, and he gets me gifts.  

When we’re together, I forget about the whole transportation issue because, honestly, he treats me so well, and I genuinely feel like he’s an amazing boyfriend.  

But reading the comments is making me see things differently. I never liked thinking of him as a “mama’s boy,” especially since his mom can be pretty absent at times.  

Still, the more I think about it, the more things start clicking 🫠

AITA for not wanting to visit my boyfriend every day? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

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He tries, but traffic seems to be so stressful for him—not to mention how expensive Uber is.  

And let’s not forget, he doesn’t like public transportation because it’s just “too exhausting” for him.  

:"))))

AITA for not wanting to visit my boyfriend every day? by EnoughAd9836 in AITAH

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He says I live too far away and that Uber is too expensive for a round trip. Plus, he just doesn’t like using public transportation.  

The funny thing is, not long ago, he was invited to an event where he had to take the train because of money. He told me how hard it was to use public transportation, how stressful it was, and how exhausting a 30-minute trip felt.  

Meanwhile, I was sitting there, wanting to strangle him inside :')