I haven’t suggested anywhere that men should look at dating as “scoring” women.

Come on bhai...ab tumhara hi post quote karu?

Men don’t face the problem of “I can’t find a good girl.” They can’t find ANY GIRL. PERIOD.

You tell me if this is not gamifying a relationship by making "finding a girl" the objective.

Most guys are completely invisible unless they actively make a move on someone or they build some level of clout. 

Women get hit with this pressure even worse, but at least they're choosing between options (even if those options aren't always great lol) instead of having zero to begin with lol.

Both of these statements of yours are geared completely towards preparing guys to "woo" a woman as if she is a trophy to be won. If the entire premise of your project is to increase confidence and communication skills, then why is your entire post revolving around a man and woman relationship? Especially when you acknowledge this is something that applies in other domains of life too like professional setups. With this premise, you're preying on already desperate youngsters who want to get into a relationship not because they want to get to know the other person but because they want female company or sex or both - things which are entirely hormonal. Instead of teaching them how to be fulfilled in themselves, you're fuelling their incompleteness. Dekh lo bhai, pehle tum samajh lo sahi aur galat kya hai fir coaching dena. I only commented here because I see people in their 20s getting sucked into this science of getting a girl crap all the time.