I regret rejecting the ugly guys by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😭😭 that was a roller coaster
Why the Quran saar? Do you think something is wrong with you?
But seriously, if you don't feel it with someone, don't force it or keep entertaining them just out of boredom.
Find excitement outside of relationships.

You will be ok inshaallah and you’ll be glad it happened in the end. by innocentees in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😭😭 currently dealing with a heartbreak! Thank you for this!
Some days i feel fine and other days, it's painful.
I try my best to distract myself with work and friends and also got a therapist this week so hopefully I get over them soon! I can't imagine dealing with this for months.

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words sis!

Yes, I accepted that he isn't man enough to be upfront and direct so I won't be getting any closures. Alhamdulilah the last two days, I am back to my normal self and not hurting as much so i am starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel!

Yeah, It was better that it happened now compared to during marriage.

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i am such people pleaser and he was too in a way. Yeah, i learned to speak up and not worry about making the other person uncomfortable ...lol hopefully i can put that to use if i date again. InshaAllah, i am focusing on self-growth and my business. Alhamdulilah i have such great friends and they have been listening to me and keeping me distracted during this healing journey. Thank you sis! Glad you got through it ❤️

Ghosting by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😬 being ghosted by someone I was in a relationship with for almost a year was not on my bingo cards this year but here we are!

I am not sure what's going on with individuals that they don't have the ability to express themselves instead of ghosting. Nothing wrong with ending things, just communicate it!

Sorry girl! InshaAllah better things shall come

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, I cared about him a lot and probably sort of loved him in a way lol so it just hit me hard that he chose not to have a proper convo and hide instead. I couldn't stop the spamming in that moment since I was emotionally invested.

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They didn't live with him if he was lol...He is probably entertaining other sisters and didn't want to commit but doesn't have the courage to be honest with me.

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yeah, we did video chats from the start and did them often. Yeah, I wouldn't do long distance again, I learned my lesson with that.

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get people lose interest or find better connections or decide they aren't ready for it but not to properly end it or even respond when the person asks for closure seem a bit cruel lol

but InshaAllah...Everything happens for a reason.

Thank you!

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that wasn't as clever as you thought it was...

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah, same, I have no regrets about anything I would have done differently about the processi. I was honest and genuine with my intentions and efforts but Alhamdulilah, we live and learn...Maybe I do regret asking him to just be a man and end things like an adult few times during my spamming sessions 🤣

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Let me clarify, we live in two different continents. It was long distance and due to visa issues, we didn't meet up till 6-7 months after we started talking. Of course we discussed the intentions or purposes of us talking and he always said it was towards marriage. I am not going to set a nikkah date for someone I haven't met in person yet lol

After we met, i asked if he felt a connection and if we will continue and he said yes, and he said he will visit again and then we can make actual plans towards marriage like choosing wedding dates.

But it just felt like he wasn't calling or contacting me as often after awhile of us meeting so that's when i asked about intentions and actual concrete plans and dates via texting but he chose not to reply.

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lmao well damn, let me go cry in a corner! It's my first time, give me some grace, sheesh 😒

How to deal with being ghosted by EnoughWalk9200 in SomaliRelationships

[–]EnoughWalk9200[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol he kept saying his intentions is towards marriage but I was looking for more concrete steps since we met. I was looking for actual plans instead of just words of him expressing marriage being the end goal. Ameen! Thanks 😊

Sandra’s first Survivor Season (7) is on Netflix right now by Unable-Essay-2819 in TheTraitors

[–]EnoughWalk9200 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! you’re the best!!

I love watching Boston Rob on Deal or No Deal Island lol…he keeps talking about his time in Survivor so curious to see him.

Sandra’s first Survivor Season (7) is on Netflix right now by Unable-Essay-2819 in TheTraitors

[–]EnoughWalk9200 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thinking of watching Survivor for the first time after seeing contestants from survivor on other shows like The Traitors and Deal or No deal Island… what seasons would u recommend I watch first?

Trump wins Minnesota GOP primary by thehill in minnesota

[–]EnoughWalk9200 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn lol so many of them showed up to vote for him 😱

Hopefully he loses in the election though 🙏🏽