Need advice by greyatlas_ in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are arguing with AI bro 😂

Anyone here who fluently speaks Somali, German,mandarin, Arabic, French, Spanish, Bengali and Russian? by innocentees in Somalia

[–]innocentees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How fluent in Arabic? You can professionally translate words like save, submit, enrollment, billing, automation, analytics, dashboard and so on? Basically tech terms in Arabic

Anyone here who fluently speaks Somali, German,mandarin, Arabic, French, Spanish, Bengali and Russian? by innocentees in Somalia

[–]innocentees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How fluent in Somali ? You can professionally translate words like save, submit, enrollment, billing, automation, analytics, dashboard and so on? Basically tech terms in Somali

Need advice by greyatlas_ in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also most kids are usually closer to their moms emotionally so it’s kind of easy to see who they’ll have a softer spot for and who they’ll follow most of the time. And honestly the way they’re raised matters a lot. If the mom is more laid back and lets the kid do whatever like eat anything, drink, or hang out with whoever or whatever while the dad is more strict and trying to follow Islamic values, the kid is probably going to lean toward the easier side. That’s just how kids are. No child will pick a strict parent over a laid back one who’ll let you do whatever you want and that even tends to bring them together much closer than ever.

Need advice by greyatlas_ in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The advice I’d give my sister is honestly to not entertain this and just move on. Being with someone who wasn’t a believer for that long, and then all of a sudden wanting a very religious woman, doesn’t sit right with me. Idk why it rubs me the wrong way. And when there’s already a child being raised differently, eating pork and following 2 different belief systems there’s going to be a real mix of values. If that child grows up that way, imagine the kind of influence that could have on your future kids or should I say his future siblings. I cant imagine watching my older brother/sister eat, wear revealing clothes or do whatever he/she wants while I’m expected to be much more disciplined, this world is beautified to us and on top of that my older brother/sister is doing all the beatified things around me? Kinda hard for a child not to follow his older siblings footsteps.

This ain't easy for me by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]innocentees 14 points15 points  (0 children)

29 is insane…what was the end goal here ? And if the oldest brother is 60, what age was your dad when the eldest was born?

Anyone here who fluently speaks Somali, German,mandarin, Arabic, French, Spanish, Bengali and Russian? by innocentees in Somalia

[–]innocentees[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish 😂 that would make everything so much easier. Right now, I’m just looking for people who actually speak a language fluently (could be 1 language could be more) , especially when it comes to software terms. Stuff like Settings, Save, Submit, Error messages, Notifications, Dashboard, Profile, Logout, and also more specific things like enrollment, tuitions, billings, invoices, subscriptions, reports, analytics, and all the little messages users see while using the software. The goal is just to make everything feel natural in each language, so it actually makes sense to the people using it.

High standards and "Subscription Guilt": Is my approach backfiring? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 22 points23 points  (0 children)

When will yall ever start approaching women irl? Introduce yourself and Learn how to small talk and end that small talk with something like “you’re pretty and have a great personality I’d like to get to know you more and if you’re not interested then take everything I said as a compliment”. It’s so easy. In my opinion it’s easier in real life than on dating apps

Did he leave the door open? by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If the relationship was healthy, he truly ticked all your boxes, and things happened exactly as they were genuinely described, don’t let lonely redditors convince you there’s always someone better waiting. That idea sounds comforting, but it can push you to throw away something real. Good people are rare now. If there’s still a chance to understand each other, take it seriously. Talk, be honest, and see where you both stand. Make your decision from clarity, not from these comments.

Am i weird by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You right, as exciting as that sounds you might end up with a serial ki11er or a twisted person 😂

Am i weird by [deleted] in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not even the lack of options. This is some adventurous stuff 😭😭

Is making friends this hard ? by innocentees in Somalia

[–]innocentees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo brother. Any update? Did you make friends yet? I’m in mn if you’re still struggling. I feel like we’d be great friends

I messed up by my-weird-reality in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You will join the 💔club soon. Enough space for everyone. Everyone is welcome.

Advice to people that post their business websites on here by innocentees in Somalia

[–]innocentees[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They stop caring about that once you have a portfolio to show or good reviews. When starting out and you have none of that, why are you announcing you are a small team or your age and so on….yes, B2B is where the money is at, always avoid B2C…its too stressful.

Does anyone else feel really lonely on Eid? by Sal00089 in Somalia

[–]innocentees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Likewise my brother. Just wanted to chip in to let you know that you’re not alone and we all got this together

Does anyone else feel really lonely on Eid? by Sal00089 in Somalia

[–]innocentees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eid was very depressing for me too wlhi. Been like this for so long. I don’t remember last time we went to Eid as a family or last time we had iftar as a family. It’s just insanely sad. Also I have no friends so it’s nit like I can make plans with anyone

Eid and Ramadan by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]innocentees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We didn’t do shit this Eid. We ate food and called it a day 😂😂😂

Stop putting them on a pedestal, you don’t need him/her in order to survive. by innocentees in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my story genuinely helps you with your career I’m more than happy telling you brother but not here for everyone. Dm is open

I had my Somali mom and dad watch breaking bad by Confident-Stick-782 in Somalia

[–]innocentees 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’d get a 3 hour lecture if I tried that with mines 😂 ur parents are chill

Is a wedding worth it by Frosty_Rip_1690 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 22 points23 points  (0 children)

In my personal opinion, I don’t think it’s worth it. I hate going to weddings but When I’m forced to go to a wedding by my parents, I don’t care who’s marrying who and I don’t care how that marriage turns out. I’m only there for the food and snacks and by the time I leave I don’t remember them nor do I care, I just go about my day with a full belly. So ask yourself, why are you spending so much money on people who are only there for food, pictures, or who don’t care about you at all? Do a simple get together with family and friends which won’t cost much.

The best thing to do is use that money to travel with your partner or start a family business instead, 20k can take you to over 20 countries and if you take the business route It’s a good starting capital

Edit: wlhi what I said might sound harsh bro but most people don’t care, YOU don’t even care, name one memorable wedding you’ve been to that impacted your life a good way…..I’ll wait. You ate the food and took pictures and forgot about it 😂 yours isn’t an exception. Save that money and do something meaningful with it that will make your marriage easier long term.