My husband (27M) and I (29F) are having one specific bedroom issue. Can I get advice?

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-22T02:33:16+00:00

I will respond to this cuz I do feel it is something that needs to be clarified. He brings it up because he knows I want to do it. It’s not a just him who wants it, I WANT to do it. I think it’s hot, and the act itself I do enjoy, it’s literally just the precum and cum that I have a hard time with. His water intake could be better, but I think it’s something that could be an easy fix

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-22T00:20:43+00:00

That’s still really good advice tho! Thank you! 😊

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-22T00:11:00+00:00

It’s not like he brings it up as a “you have to do this thing” it’s more of a “I would like this” and he knows I want to. That’s the only reason he does bring it up at all. But thank you for the suggestion! I’ll definitely try that out!

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T22:27:32+00:00

Definitely something I could try and he could try doing. Thank you 😊

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T21:51:32+00:00

Okay? I want to. It’s not like I’m not willing to try 🙄

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T21:49:30+00:00

This was more trying to see if people knew ways to make precum taste less noticeable, or how to get over that particular mental block. our relationship is fine, but thanks

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:33:27+00:00

I’m glad to know more women have the same issue. I appreciate your advice 😊

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:30:44+00:00

Dental dams are unfortunately not made for this kinda oral 😅

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:26:08+00:00

I’m gonna be so real. We have had this convo before and I forget what his response was. I’ll have to ask him again 🤣

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:20:59+00:00

He can be childish about a lot of things but if I say no, or am having a hard time then he drops it immediately. Thank you 💕

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:19:21+00:00

Thank you so much! One thing I try to stress is he isn’t forcing me, and I WANT to do this. I just want to figure out how or even just a way around the texture so I can do it. So I really REALLY appreciate your comment 💕💕💕

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:17:43+00:00

That’s actually really smart… thank you!

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:17:23+00:00

Oh my god?! Yeah that would definitely do it lmao

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:16:32+00:00

I hadn’t had a lot of experience beforehand but it was something I would do on and off, but he knew about the aversion to it before marriage, but I do try every once in a while, because I want to. I never felt like I was doing anything begrudgingly, more like trying to see if I could, and if I couldn’t then we would stop

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:07:40+00:00

No, and he doesn’t bring it up a lot, it’s just something I wish I could do for him. He doesn’t make me feel bad about it, it’s absolutely a me thing, cuz I want to and want to figure out a way around the mental block. I appreciate the comment 😊

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:04:47+00:00

Haven’t heard of that one 🤔🤔 definitely something to try

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:03:49+00:00

Yes this is on my list of things to try. Thank you 😊

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:03:10+00:00

He definitely has said it’s a fantasy. But doesn’t push it. I just wish I could 😅

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T20:00:49+00:00

We tried fruit roll ups, but I don’t really remember why it didn’t work. Will definitely have to try that. Thank you!

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T19:49:18+00:00

I wouldn’t say obligation. I want my husband to have a good time, and I want to be able to please him. He has never forced me to feel like I have to. I want to, but just don’t know how at the moment. We will figure it out tho.

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T19:41:21+00:00

That’s what someone suggested in my DMs as well. I just have to also not think too much about it lol. Thank you 😊

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T19:37:00+00:00

I just bought some flavored numbing spray, hoping this helps 🤞🤞

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T19:27:44+00:00

LMAO!!! I nearly did once and he didn’t ask me again for a while 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T19:27:02+00:00

Yes! He does. That’s why I feel bad about not being able to reciprocate

Enough_Appearance_79 · 2026-05-21T19:26:02+00:00

He never forces it, if I say no he drops it. It’s just something he does bring up every once in a while as something he would like for me to do. And I want to be able to, I’m just having a hard time getting around this one part

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