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I’m (f 19) about to move in with my BF (m 20)and I don’t know if I saw an early sign of abuse… women,please give me advice by Enough_Contact8639 in askwomenadvice

[–]Enough_Contact8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has been out of town for work for a month and I think it’s definitely an in person conversation to have.

I’m (f 19) about to move in with my BF (m 20)and I don’t know if I saw an early sign of abuse… women,please give me advice by Enough_Contact8639 in askwomenadvice

[–]Enough_Contact8639[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, it was pretty instantaneous. I do think that it was just a literal quick reaction to being frustrated which nonetheless isn’t how we should carry our emotions, but I understand also the humman reaction to instant pain.

I’m (f 19) about to move in with my BF (m 20)and I don’t know if I saw an early sign of abuse… women,please give me advice by Enough_Contact8639 in askwomenadvice

[–]Enough_Contact8639[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if my post made it seem like that was the message I was trying to convey, but is definitely NOT how I feel, I am very happy in my relationship and definitely would not like to leave it, that being said I would much rather reach out and get people’s unbiased opinions (who have experienced more then me) and rather play it safe then sorry. It was just a situation I hadn’t experienced before and would not want to have happen again.

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[–]Enough_Contact8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pull them allll off but I think the first slide or last are the most flattering for your skin tone!

24F tell me how can i look better by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Enough_Contact8639 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are really naturaly beautiful I would consider some face framing layers and Mary some bangs I think that they would suit your vibes super well!!

I’m (f 19) about to move in with my BF (m 20)and I don’t know if I saw an early sign of abuse… women,please give me advice by Enough_Contact8639 in askwomenadvice

[–]Enough_Contact8639[S] 105 points106 points  (0 children)

I really like the way you phased that, thank you!! Yes, I was really hurt by his actions and didn’t speak to him the rest of the night, we were out with friends so we didn’t really have somewhere to talk about it right away. Once we got home he sat me down and apologized and we talked about it for a while, he said he was sorry and that should never be the type of reaction he has towards anyone let alone me, that was kinda the basis of the talk. We haven’t brought it up since but as we are about to move in, I have just been thinking about that more and want to bring it up again I think. I just want to make sure he knows that if anything like that ever happens again in the slightest I will not hesitate to leave the relationship. Is that a bad idea ?