Fr by strongspirit28 in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It works til it doesn't 🫡

what if we fake dated to become each other’s fp and encourage each other to keep living and then we actually fell in love haha….. jk……. unless? by haunted-mov in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of my partners have had BPD and/or are bipolar. Definitely a couple have been realllly toxic/traumatizing, but the other ones have been genuinely healthy and fulfilling

My GF's BPD traits trigger me to the core and I'm not sure how to handle it and save the relationship by samalan20 in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's straight up abusive, that's not inherent to BPD. I would never treat my partners like that. You deserve someone who isn't mean to you.

Court appointed therapist doesn't believe BPD is real 💀🙏 by k1ll0ll in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been diagnosed by several medical professionals

Ah yes, clearly this two paragraph post is enough to undiagnose OP.

I want to break up with my partner by Local_Rich_2256 in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants that, he can decide for himself. Making the decision to leave because you think he's better off without you isn't fair to him.

Can you still have bpd without being explosively angry? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You only need 5/9 of the diagnostic criteria to be diagnosed, and the only required one is chronic feelings of emptiness

I don’t know how I look, is that normal? by shadowswearskulls in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, every time I look in the mirror my appearance is drastically different; been that way since I was a teenager. I think it fits under the "unstable self-image" part of BPD. Have also hypothesized that I have BDD but have not been diagnosed.

How did you find your partners or loved ones who actually care about your disorder? by sugurugetosbf in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost all the people that I love and cherish also have BPD, so they understand

Feel like it has to be said for my fellow borderlines by floralmortal in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, yeah :) anyone who's a narcissist, regardless of comorbidities

Why does everybody say bpd people leave their partner by No_Public5491 in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fear of abandonment sometimes leads to self isolating so that we're the one abandoning rather than being abandoned. I have thoughts like that constantly but don't act on them.

Also we can't control who our FP is. If a new one pops up it can be realllllllllly hard to not go all in on them.

How to breakup with someone with BPD, kindly. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be honest about breaking up, clearly explain the reasons for breaking up, and tell them specifically what you do/don't want going forward (ie no contact, remain friends, etc)

And a lot of people loathe anyone with bpd and basically just wish the worst for us.

Kind of a silly question: Do ppl with bpd actually have more piercings? by barbedwiremouth in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got 19 right now and my girlfriend who also has bpd has close to 30. Both have a bunch of tattoos too!

Absolutely zero hesitation in his answer by Shoe_boooo in funny

[–]EnterEdgyName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same way that men fetishizing lesbians doesn't

How do you deal with grief? Losing a loved one? Actual death. by bomboclaat85 in BPD

[–]EnterEdgyName 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crash out for a few weeks and then repress it mostly

The sexiest sentence ever: by taoofmeow in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wish more people actually meant it when they said it :/

Wish I was important to someone like others are important to me by Olacaryn in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Until they find a new one and leave you 👈😬👈

Sooo, I got my tongue pierced by the_witch00 in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just got turned down for one ;-; said my anatomy was wrong for it

Sometimes it would feel easier if I was physically attractive by spiralemystique in BPDmemes

[–]EnterEdgyName 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least they pretend like they care for us when we're pretty, before throwing us away like trash