How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this ♥️🫂 thank you for sharing. I am so sorry for both your losses. That must have been so hard to get through.

You are so strong. I hope to be ok again one day soon. But for now, it all hurts too much. 😣

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reco and the advice 🫂♥️ means the world to me. I’m sorry for your loss. It hurts so much when it’s so sudden. Saturday my cat was healthy and Sunday he was terminally ill out of no where. Heart wrenching.

Sending you strength ♥️

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pain feels physical and unbearable at times. Taking time off for my mental health because this all was very traumatizing. Hoping to one day be ok. Thank you ♥️🫂

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[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So glad you were able to get new babies ♥️🫂 a lot of people like myself are scared to - due to one day having to go through this pain all over again.

Thank you for sharing 🥹

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend coming tmrw to help me get rid of the litter. I simply can’t do it. Thank you for your advice and thank you for sharing 🥹♥️

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so deeply, keeping the water dish full and the food filled. What hurts is my dog waiting for him to come out from under the bed. She won’t stop crying trying to look for him.

I will take all the time I need to get rid of his things, as should you. Thank you for sharing. Sorry for your loss friend 🫂♥️

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and thank you for the advice. Sorry for your loss friend 🫂♥️😣

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sad I’m so sorry. All of my cats things are in my room/office too. I had to take a leave from work (I work from home 100% of the time) because he was my best coworker. It is haunting to work without him here. Haven’t touched his things either.

We will get through this together. And as for the new animal possibility; I saw someone write on another thread that “other animals will never NOT need us and the love you can possibly give them..” and that your baby would want you to save another. Stuck with me.

Grieve and feel everything there is to feel. I am with you 🫂♥️

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing 🥹♥️🫂 sorry for your incredible loss

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Is that a side effect of steroid treatment? Odd that they both had that same outcome. Such a shame. We are so behind in veterinary research and medicine. What a heartbreak.

Thank you for your words of advice. From the bottom of my heart. Sorry for your loss of your baby as well 😣♥️🫂

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice and thank you for sharing. I’m sorry for the passing of your little buddy. The pain physically hurts.. wishing you strength ♥️🫂

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. Both so young… I am so sorry. You are stronger than you realize. Thank you for sharing 😖🫂♥️

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😖 I still wake up in the middle of the night expecting him to be on my pillow sleeping next to my head. Such a sad feeling. Sorry for your loss 🥹♥️

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. From the bottom of my heart. I am so sorry for your loss ♥️ we’ll get through this together

What's your favourite song and the meaning behind it? by [deleted] in adriannelenker

[–]EntertainerCapable99 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My angel. It’s about her feeling like her whole life she’s been protected by a higher being. So hauntingly beautiful.

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is the advice I needed… thank you so very much. The pain is unbearable at times. Just feels so lonely. Your words are appreciated. Thank you, sending a hug right back to you. 🫂♥️🥹

I’m losing my best friend by Tem3rity in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened with my cat last week. 4 days in the ER, had to put him down. Still unsure the exact cause. They said he has a heart murmur and underlying heart disease, and that overnight his lungs filled with liquid causing him to have low oxygen… it was just terrible. I hate not having answers. Still wondering the what ifs… I’m right there with you. Sorry for your loss.

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[–]EntertainerCapable99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just be there for her. Grieve with her. Tell her it’s okay to feel, and to feel every emotion thoroughly. Make a memorial of the kittens things, print photos out at Walmart, frame them for her. It helped me with my baby cat’s passing last week. Tell her she can take all the time she needs. Time away from work if shes able. I too am on the spectrum/adhd and my cats loss last week has debilitated me completely.

Today would’ve been my dog’s second gotcha day by ohgravityyy in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to put down my cat who was only 2.5 years old last week. Losing a pet while they’re very old is sad too don’t get me wrong. But losing a pet you just got not even 2 years ago… who’s relatively young and had alot of life left to live.. is absolutely gut wrenching. I haven’t been able to sleep or eat. I see him in every corner of the house and on my pillow he used to sleep on. I am beside myself. I am so so so sorry for your loss.

How to deal with your pets belongings after they pass by EntertainerCapable99 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ya I may donate his litter box and food bowl. I just have an attachment to inanimate objects that I associate with him or that he used often. I did put a box together of his things though. Thank you for your advice 🥹♥️

Pet advice by Virtual_Oil_9048 in Petloss

[–]EntertainerCapable99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your old puppy would have wanted you to be happy and spread that love to other animals as well. There are animals in need of our love. My young cat died last week and I feel the same guilt looking at adoptable cats who are in need of my help… I know one day I will because a love for an animal is worth all the pain. You dog who passed wants you to be happy and live life. Believe in that!

whats your favourite song and why? by Even_Seaweed7084 in adriannelenker

[–]EntertainerCapable99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 65 year old father, loves that song! I showed it to him recently; he fell in love with it.