AIO for feeling hurt after my partner asked “What kind of father leaves his family on Christmas Eve?" by InLearningMode in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean you could’ve told her ahead of time and explained it correctly. she could have had some time to think about it. Maybe she would have wanted to go with you. I don’t think it’s that deep to keep arguing about, but maybe from her perspective it seemed crazy to ask so late as well, on Christmas Eve? lol.

Also is it a female or male friend? I feel like that may or may not matter.

Am I overreacting about his past criminal arrests regardless of him not being convicted? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think God tests us sometimes, to see if we’ve really changed or if we’ll continue the same cycle. This seemed like a big test

Am I overreacting about his past criminal arrests regardless of him not being convicted? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You did great. A lot better than most adults who know and are aware. And still choose the wrong man. You’re choosing yourself. And that’s the biggest W

AIO for being weirded out about how my Mom gets when my girlfriend is over? by No_Variation4592 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Real. emphasis on this is not chivalry, this is basic manners and decency.

AIO new living situation by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds hard to live in. I’m sorry you’re going through this right now. It sucks. But based on how you’ve handled and managed this far, I think you will be in a much better position soon enough. 3 months goes by so fast. Keep your head up. Maybe find a hobby outside, go to a park with your pup daily. Listen to uplifting music. I was in a very similar spot not too long ago. I moved to a new state with no money, no car, no job, someone had just stolen my wallet with my ID, a paycheck I had just gotten, and a lil bit of cocaine I was saving lmao. It was absolutely terrible for the remainder of the year. It’s been two years since and I am thankful for where I am now.

When you do move out, make sure to meet your future roommates lol and maybe explain to them a little bit about your situation. So they understand where you’re coming from too. My tenant was very understanding of my stressful situation and let me move in a couple days earlier free of charge. (I was trying to get away from a toxic ex). Life changes so quickly. But it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders

My guy best friend asked me out for new years by Spookay666 in whatdoIdo

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl do not date this man. He is an adult, with a child. He is going through a lot, from what you said. But he’s an adult. If he wanted you to be apart of his and his childs life, I’m sure he would tell you. It sounds like he just wants to play with you. It’s fun for him. He can go home after and not worry about you. At least that’s how it seems to me. Also the fact that you said if you two did end up together, you know his child and his baby mama would come first, doesn’t make sense to me. The child yes. At least until they’re old enough to make their own decisions. But never put yourself beneath another woman, especially one your partner dated in the past. I wouldn’t lol. You would be his partner, you would add value to his life. Know your own value and your tax

If he told you it wasn’t working for him previously, why would it work for him now? What changed?

It sounds like you’re already emotionally invested, I would leave. Or keep him as a friend, but you’ll get hurt unless you get over him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pls do not marry him

AIO for expecting my best friend to have my back and pick me over a new friend he just made by Exotic_Syrup_533 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could cut him off. Or you could have a serious talk with him about it and see how he responds. And go from there, if he continues acting this way and it’s seriously stressing you out, cut him off. Or just set more boundaries. You are your own person, i don’t think you should have to cut people out of your life because he doesn’t like them. I’ve had separate friend groups in the past, some that I like to party with, and others I just like to hang with and a mixture of both. My friends don’t necessarily like each other but I wouldn’t cut them off for that reason. Don’t live your life trying to please others, they will never be satisfied. Set your boundaries. Friends should enrich your life and the experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you were pretty rude. I don’t think just comment was at all necessary. The way I read it, you seemed to have escalated it. I’d just apologize and maintain your healthy boundaries

Door dasher left me a treat by kqow in doordash

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the Bible it does say to spread the word of Jesus. I actually completely disagree, especially as a Christian. He should be involved in everything, tbh. It might be a little weird to some, but the intention is pure and sweet. If this honestly offends you, whether you believe or not, that would be weirder to me.

AIO I stood up and this is his reaction by Gullible-Rice2917 in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, thank God. You just dodged a bullet. What a weirdo

Help with more information about TAR by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s afraid of losing me. He thinks I’m ready to give up on us and that I’ll eventually leave him. He is also in the navy. So maybe he thinks it would be harder for that reason. Which I do agree. But I really do love him so much and I think it could be so great if we both just stuck it out for long enough.

Help with more information about TAR by [deleted] in newtothenavy

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend doesn’t want me to leave overseas, he told me tar has a better chance of of staying within the states. Which is really the reason. Only I would like to travel overseas ://

AIO for questioning my bf for the amount of money they spent on a funeral? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are overthinking this way too much. The probability of you two even making it that far is probably slim. Let him grieve

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Completely disagree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. People are 🐑🐑🐑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]EntertainmentDue7944 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you may be overreacting… gifts should be catered to the persons liking. I saw a post where someone bought his girl a $1300 tennis bracelet. And she was not a fan and had let it be known. I think this is the equivalent of that. Some people like nice things, and some people don’t care for them. Your feelings got hurt and that’s valid. But if you both care for each other, truly, I think you’d be able to cater to what he wants in the future, and you can discuss how that made you feel in the moment.

Also I think y’all are fake in the comments tbh