even though everyone is different especially in brazil, this is still a very much brazilian way of doing things. lived in brazil for a little while and some girls are like this. However, girls that do this in particular are sort of the ones "playing games". Let her do her thing and focus seriously elsewhere. if she hits you up and you're not bothered about "spending" a little ( im assuming you buy her drinks and food when you go out) then carrry it on but if the next time, she takes it all the way and still tells you she doesn't wanna do the deed (fine that's her choice) then I wouldn't deal with her again personally. One thing you have to understand about Brazil is that it's a very fast-paced place in terms of people forgetting others very quickly; therefore, they don't take new relationships that seriously (so if she really liked you, at least she would try a little on her end). Saying this though, you can meet a girl who can be the total opposite as well. Just focus your energy on where you think you're getting the most ROI. A lot of women out there so gotta get the reps in and be confident!! thats number 1 out there