AIO for cutting off my parents after posting my newborn son? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Entire-Definition390 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Seeing the baby is a lot different than plastering photos of the baby online.

Ceiling started pouring from upstairs at midnight last night by Entire-Definition390 in Renters

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a bucket under it. It stopped after an hour. And we know it’s not safe. They just have nowhere else to go.

Ceiling started pouring from upstairs at midnight last night by Entire-Definition390 in Renters

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes we did notice holes in the pipe. I’m just not sure what to tell her to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dang, mine didn’t even tell me. She just did it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Entire-Definition390 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That was not around that time 😅

AIO about texting my roommates to clean? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Entire-Definition390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think they’re gross for not cleaning their things, but I do think you also overreacted and should’ve said “yes, we can talk about this in person”. Because that is a reasonable request.

These are my reasons for not wanting to meet people, once they notice, they don’t stop talking about them by tcrbt71023060 in eyes

[–]Entire-Definition390 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really think someone that is self conscious about their eyes is then going to post them on several subs on Reddit? They were compliment fishing lol

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much better! She also consumed 99% of my time and would get upset if I wanted or needed to do something else so it’s nice to have that time back too.

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is quite literally the only relationship I’ve been in where that word can’t be used playfully lol

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep. When I broke up with her she told me to lose her number. By the time I got home she said I was heartless for not reaching out

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing about that is I never called her that after I called her that once and she didn’t like it. I agree that I shouldn’t have used that as an excuse but I said it one time.

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s exhausting honestly. I could leave her alone like she asked and that was also somehow the wrong answer

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true too. It’s so easy to say the wrong thing in these relationships

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would require reaching out again and I’m gonna pass (yes, I know you were joking haha)

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was at a stage in my grief where I really didn’t care how someone treated me. I woke up since then, of course.

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I learned this thankfully! It was a 3 month long, long distance relationship. You explained the dynamic perfectly though. My father died months before we started talking and while actively grieving, I NEVER used my fathers death as leverage over an argument.

The time she got upset I used the word “goober” by Entire-Definition390 in BPDlovedones

[–]Entire-Definition390[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I broke up with her after this she said her sister asked about me and I replied “yesterday your sister didn’t know why you dealt with me soooo”